标题: uBLDz1mDoq [打印本页] 作者: kodjuerzoh29 时间: 2014-11-4 01:47 标题: uBLDz1mDoq □ Evening News reporter Shi Ming reports
"Do not you people in love in front of their own equipment and saints (Joan), as you are husband and wife, not an outsider, you can be cool on the outside of the home should have a personal kind, do not stink up. Engage in long and his wife (husband) are to you at arm's length, there love? While married to live together, and also do not take each other purse money as their own money. Money is money, love is love, this year, the economic crisis, someone's not easy to earn some money; since to live together, and they all make diligent some of it, not at home hegemonism, myself do nothing, what are dependent on each other; what is the most popular in the 21st century , eating the old style is popular,http://www.beamed.com/search/search.cgi, we can not learn, yourself and clothing; Under increasing pressure to survive, forced to face their parents, only to get married as a means to meet their expectations; These days, who would be afraid to get married because divorce is not a shameful thing ...... "Recently, an expose '80 Marriage hidden rules" of the post, with its shocking content makes quite amazing. As a first-generation only child, "80" from birth to become the focus of attention of a generation. Now, when this generation has become the main force into the wedding hall, their marriage once again become the focus of discussion.
Married more to meet the parents
Liu Lan, born in 1984, and is currently planning a wedding. Liu Lan was not looking forward to the upcoming wedding, for this comes through intimate marriage, Liu Lan only when the parents upbringing return. She told reporters that the marriage was not what she wanted, so its quality and deadlines she can not be guaranteed. This is not her lightly, nor is it the legendary "80" with the nature and irresponsible, it is precisely that she too would like to be responsible for their marriage, so just trying so hard to stop this match parents' marriage. But,[url=http://www.kaz32.com/cgi-bin/nextbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=464&page=2http://www.kaz32.com/cgi-bin/nextbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=464&page=2[/url], the immediate result is obviously Liu Lan efforts failed.
Liu Lan's first love was a high school classmate Siyuan. Siyuan math class representative in the class, my mind a very smart boy. They and three other students in the same class of men and women,giubbotti moncler,http://www.mogev.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=121095, and even formed a class in grade five famous people to help. The five individual learning are excellent, usually they play together, along with the review before the exam, even then the envy of other students, it is difficult beeped. Contact more, Siyuan Liu Lan and closer and closer. The third year,http://www.lovehexie.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=383924&fromuid=15282, when five people already know that they help change the relationship. Fortunately, they also are a bit mind, know the importance of reading. Although there are Qingdouchukai ignorant youth, but the school still can not relax. After high school,moncler piumini, Siyuan in arranging their parents go abroad. Face separation, two "80" has a distinctive approach. Before Siyuan go, they are still frolicking all day, go out of five people are also helping collective counterparts. Until one day to go before Siyuan Liu Lan was written on MSN treasure word. The day after, they also have contact, but they rarely mention their relationship. Liu Lan, who has been on the liberal attitude of the parents, in her work for nearly three years later, and finally could not wait to begin to raise her daughter's marriage. Uninterrupted blind, Liu Lan extreme boredom. Liu Lan themselves as very high, graduated from prestigious universities, well-paid foreign white-collar identity, stylish dress and beautiful appearance,http://204.187.14.150/cgi-bin/photos/search.cgi, let her confidence. After the foot on the society, she was no shortage of suitors, with units of social friends there, but Liu Lan,piumini moncler, she always felt now enjoy more freedom and happiness singles. Looked around more and more outstanding girls gradually become the eyes of others "left women", Liu Lan's parents no longer sit still, so one after another after another blind date. Parents move to Liu Lan very difficult to understand,moncler outlet online, she did not know, she was 25 years old in his early, as the parents of such a worry you? She also had hard words thrown parents: do not go blind and then forced, nor considered married. But her "relentless" mother's heart has always been sincere and earnest persuasion and tearfully face the collapse of sorrow, blind still continued.
Now about to become her husband, this man is the object of Liu Lan really can not afford endless blind date last resort choice. Of course, in the eyes of their parents, this good man to make them very happy. Liu Lan relieved parents satisfied smile. Just think of married life, her eyes are dazed.
Not afraid to get married because divorce is not shameful
"Marriage phobia", for modern young people is not a strange word. Indeed, since the forced real life pressures, many people had to push again the issue of marriage. However, as the "80" dare dare, and they are not afraid of marriage, because,mulberry sale, in their view,outlet moncler, divorce and marriage as natural.
Patrick, 27 years old, married less than a year, put the red into the green of the present. Patrick and her ex-husband is also blind understanding, the two exchanges for three months, they decided to get married. When Patrick put the decision to tell their parents, the mother is very careful to ask how each other's character Patrick? Whether their personalities come together? Patrick's answer was simple: nobody can such a thing after all, and now they feel good together, is now married to each other's wishes, then let it be. As to whether it will change the future, not now able to predict. Ex-husband's family was very good, he is a young "returnees", they combined to make Patrick's vanity was greatly satisfied. House, car,http://www.clarityenglish.com/englishonline/index.php?item/create_form/1, like a lot, Patrick married life is happy affluent.
Before marriage, Patrick was Miss selling cars, because people look beautiful, articulate, very popular with customers of all ages, of course, the performance is not bad. This work faced by almost all wealthy clients, where there are some young talent. Patrick virtue of superior appearance and skilled operational capacity, the development of several customers for her easy. This often causes other employee dissatisfaction, so the rumors about Patrick also will flow. Yang Jiasheng of stubborn, turned a deaf ear to those words, but more and more hard to "crying", performance is much higher than others, of course, the commission is also lucrative than others. Patrick's regardless of whether actually offended a group of people.
Patrick dealers to work far away from the new home, marriage, most of the time by her husband shuttle. Once, Patrick's ex-husband to pick her up from work, some people with ulterior motives began to wind made a point to say that the language divide between Patrick and customers about the things that make a man was still her husband is not too happy. Soon, her ex-husband raised want to have children, I hope Patrick can leave your current job, making people feel at ease implementation of the program at home. Yang Jiajian never agree, saying it is too early now made man, she really likes her job, the reason why there is now the results are after a fairly long period of accumulation and pay, now just beginning to be harvested, just give a pity . Patrick's attitude to her ex-husband was very angry, so he accused her ex-husband Patrick is Buxia those rich and powerful clients. For ex unwarranted verbal provocation, an enraged Patrick tempted emotion, and her ex-husband in a fierce quarrel. After that, her ex-husband although there admit, but Patrick felt from his heart suspicion and caution. Although the surfaces are trying to ignore each other and forget about it, but the knot already exists, it is difficult to eliminate. After nine months of marriage, and her ex-husband Patrick live feel so tired. So they parted amicably.
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Shanhun, flash off, trial marriage, net marriage, not marriage; Phoenix man, peacock female, affordable men, simple ...... As more and more women, "80" start getting married, fashionable rhetoric followed endless. It has been on the "80" after the marriage has made some inference: that they pragmatic, self, openness, lack of responsibility, therefore, experiencing feelings change cycle fast,http://cgi.www5f.biglobe.ne.jp/~hikage/cgi-bin/aska/aska.cgi, entertaining elevated marriage, marital status, worrying. It was also pointed out that "80" after the marriage should not be tagged, many of them quality characteristics and their attitudes towards marriage, not because they were born in the 1980s, but because they are still young.
"80" as China's first generation only child, who grew up on the lack of sibling affection; the reform of China's education experience, just on the university met enrollment; catch up with China's urbanization. More prominent is: on the one hand, "80" to enjoy the Chinese ever privileged material life,http://www.15pub.com/apps.php?q=diary&a=detail&did=311018&uid=2623, most of the educational opportunities and the most abundant way of information brought by television and the Internet, access to a lot of avant-garde fashion concepts But the reality is that most guidance and control their parents, educators, mostly in the 1950s and 1960s, the Chinese traditional culture imprint has not been smooth these trendy concepts. Traditional and modern concepts strongly collision with these, they're like more than one combination of contradictions "80" body. When they take advantage of these contradictions among brought into the marriage, let's marriage had become increasingly difficult to difficult.
Facts have proved that when "80" is just beginning their journey of marriage,hogan, the couple suffered a crisis of confidence, family members can not get along, money and household management confusion, various contradictions and frictions and other issues. Faced with marriage, compared with the elders, they are exposed to the pressure greater.
According to relevant statistics show that Shanghai last year, an average of 102 pairs of couples divorce each day, including "80," the age of 30 couples divorce rate is the highest. Experts for the next "80" after the marital status of such a conclusion: "80" is gradually becoming the backbone of society and the workplace who, while their marital problems if not handled properly, it will be a huge risk of future society.
"80", "seven note" the content of the unspoken rules of marriage
■ less cocky people do not love you in front of his own equipment and saints (Joan), as you are husband and wife, not an outsider,mulberry outlet, outside Baiku on it, coming home to someone like, do not stink up . Engage in long, wife (husband) are to you at arm's length, there love?
■ The economy should be more discussions,louboutin, although married, live together, and also do not take each other purse money as their own money, money is money, love is love, does she (he) is the wage all to you Love it? So your love too superficial. This year, the economic crisis, someone to earn some money is not easy, but if you do not have to rush out again finance, and finally the house a mess, arguing it is difficult to avoid.
■ To diligent "80" people have a common problem is lazy, lazy sister to some buddies who can grow maggots, so no way, since to live together, and they all make diligent some of it. Do home hegemonism, myself do nothing, what are dependent on each other, even said: you do not do so and so just do not love me. This is not nonsense it? Love you to be sure to wash the clothes cook ah, then you might as well hire a cook or laundress and the like, keeping love you.
■ Do not nag nag the last century married people often do things in the 21st century marriage, "80" will not learn this "fine tradition" of the day out bullied by supercilious enough? You have to come back a little small whining not a complete, trouble also give you sick. They might directly affect the quality of life, which we want to see.
■ speak scruples do not think getting married on what words can say, some words can not say or do not say the best, such as: When so many people chasing me,moncler outlet online, how do I spotted you this wimp. And so on and so forth. If you fancy a wimp, what you are? Broke, even a wimp get it working, then you may be finished.
■ Do not bite the old 21st century what the most popular eating old. This is unheard of China for thousands of years, Confucius has to know if the nether world, have probably blowing nose stare at the ground floor, screaming: immoral, outrageous. Style is popular, we can not learn. Couple with hands and feet, but to rely on old feed, got out, the two of you can be is Laoshuguojie outside, the people cry.
■ To diligence because our generation, all of them are parents of small baby at home, did not eat bitter, do not know the hard-earned money. After work, spend more recklessly, that spectrum are not,air max, tend to be the beginning of tycoons, at the end of a pauper. In the event of something, they can only . So, to live or to thrift some planned more.