标题: understanding the feelings of the child [打印本页] 作者: bvliOIf9v5 时间: 2014-11-14 23:03 标题: understanding the feelings of the child 16-year-old girl three months lost two phones, my father walked out after being criticized; 15-year-old boy was not text back and weariness, leaving school; 11-year-old boy did not want homework, runaways ...... National Day holiday before and after the occurrence of three consecutive Yantai away from juvenile event, fortunately, have been recovered. They experienced what in the end? Who that is responsible for the safety of their home and?
Newspaper reporter Zhang Jing Liu Qingyuan
Yantai 11-year-old baby boy
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After the "out of the boy" no homework Aixun "goodbye"
"In the bed left a note saying 'Mom and Dad, my bad, sorry! Bye! Love your son,' and then took a pack and shirt to go." On the 9th, Yantai citizens Sun Ms. morning found 11-year-old baby son ran away from home.
Ms. Sun said that the baby is a very good child, usually cheerful and sensible, the results are very good, often test out, but that is not love homework. "Children do not love homework, but the learning has been good, although I do not care, but the teacher or not, this also looked for the parents." Ms. Sun said.
On the 8th night, baby do not want to write about math homework, want to write onto the next morning, Ms. Sun said he therefore few. On the 9th morning, the baby went out, Ms. Sun also thought that his son went to walk the dog, and when squeezed juice and other fruit knife was found missing,chanel pas cher, finally found his son's room, while still in bed, he found a writing on a napkin on paper, did not realize his son ran away from home.
9 morning, Ms. Sun to his son's cell phone only rang twice to shut down. "The children just on the first day, there is no particular friend, really worried to death people." Ms. Sun said, because the small implementation of "stocking" education for children, the child's independence is very strong, three-year-old will be able to own swimming Museum learning to swim, early will be able alone to fly to Beijing and Shanghai.
Anxious day later, at 21:00 on the 9th and more, Ms. Sun suddenly received his son's phone. Originally, he learned that the mother could not find him anxious, he quickly called reported safe,abercrombie france, and come home in the evening.
Laiyang Health School 16-year-old girl Zhao
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Sa month lost two phones afraid criticized migrant workers
October 6, leaving school girl Zhao roughness week has finally been recovered.
Zhao is a student Laiyang health schools. September 30, she was an excuse to leave the office phone card to the teacher, with all the luggage leaving school because they lost just bought the phone. 3 months lost two mobile phones,http://www.xzshy.org/home.php?mod=space&uid=13628, Zhao was the father criticized a few, decided to take advantage of the National Day holiday, migrant workers earn the money.
Thinking Zhao has experience working in a restaurant, everyone from restaurants to start looking,http://888.zv85.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=43233, and finally found her Haiyang a restaurant, a family reunion.
However,http://www.xinruihuayuan.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=211131,hogan outlet, the 8th at noon,http://51xxoo.co/thread-43351-1-1.html, Zhao Xiao Zhao's father, call the reporter said, the child may be expelled from school because of child discipline earlier, too much influence.
Mr. Zhao finally relieved once again tense: expulsion will cause more harm to the child,abercrombie pas cher?
On the 6th, the reporter contacted the teacher Qu Xiao Zhao Chen. Qu Chen said the school is very strict on discipline grasp, student lying leave school, in violation of school discipline,http://bbs.jzst8.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1244802, but is expelled,herve leger outlet, the school is still under study. However, as a teacher, Chen Qu child mental capacity that is worrying, children will no longer have to worry about making a similar move later.
Laizhou 15-year-old Xiao Xu
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The total text not scared back to school back
Girl Gang back, Laizhou came the 15-year-old boy leaving school news.
Back to school for students to focus on the 8th day, at 6 am, Laizhou people Xu Liang Xu of the 15-year-old son to school. Xu Liang Powell left, the children followed out of the gate.
10:00, Xu Liang Xiao Xu's teacher asked the children how did not come to class,hollister france, Xu Liang did not know his son is not in school. Everyone crazy looking for a day, to no avail.
Until the evening, Xiao Xu dragged his exhausted body, a man from the city back to the village, the family was surprised.
Xu Liang said his son in Laizhou City,woolrich outlet, a private boarding school junior, on the third day of the year. There may be a rebellious child, just in time he would not have a language lesson on the text back down,hollister,http://loogia.cc/herocraft/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=2300537, afraid of the teacher, they ran away.
Reporter exchanges and Xu, the whispers from his can feel his exhaustion. He said to leave school that day, the day in the city to buy a book, late, could not find the car, and went back, almost lost.
Why leaving school? Xiao Xu said: "Day 7 every day have a job, the day did not stop recite a language lesson, how hard I can not remember.."
"There is no communication with the teacher too?"
"The teacher will use the teacher's methods, but are not accustomed to using them." Xu said, "The teacher did not dare look back not on punishment, a fine copy five times."
"Scribe work?" The reporter asked. "Regardless, every period of time to forget." Xu said, because this, he always afraid of going back to school.
Helpless child, the parents have to help a
Children away one by one, how they helplessness and frustration in the end, have named the most loving parents have not had?
Dani teacher adolescent psychology experts believe that these children are in adolescence, rebellion is one thing, more important aspect is that they are in the case of difficulties, helpless, whether someone to help them. If the long-term "learned helplessness", it is apt to cause the child's emotional weariness, even fleeing the school and families.
As parents, how to solve the child's problem? "Deal with their emotions, go deal with things." Dani teachers believe that parents should stand the child's position,abercrombie france, understanding the feelings of the child, to teach him what needs to be noted that a similar situation happen again in the future how to deal with, but not blindly to stand on the moral high ground to criticize the child. Such encounter problems and difficulties, the child first thought would be to their parents for help, rather than the fear of parents criticism.
For teachers, education is an in-depth, detailed systematic project, not any simple and crude manner conducive to the child's growth, "can not let the children because learning and self-esteem."
Dani teachers believe that schools in educating children and families are cooperating, "Parents,peuterey, teachers want children behind bad behavior, see the unmet needs of children, to see the children frustrated, frustration, helplessness, resentment, etc. bad mood. When a child needs help, we want to be able to kids 'Rotary launched'. "Jang newspaper reporter
Do easily drive the child to the community
Zhao girl for home or dismissal from school, the China Youth Research Association Deputy Secretary-General Li Xin Lu made it clear that, do not think the child to the society, the school no responsibility, if there is a series of problems, most schools should reflect.
Li Xin Lu believes that as a school, you should consider whether it can make the greatest efforts to provide students with a most favorable environment for their growth. In this context, again consider the school but also for the students what to do, rather than just considering leaving for school students brought loss and trouble.
"Students make a wrong in a very emotional situation, the school can not deal with the emotional way." Li Xin Lu believes that once such a child to the society,http://www.xyqhsy.com/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=172821, look no responsibility for the school, but if other problems occur, most schools should reflect.
In Li Xin Lu opinion, rebellious teenagers away from home, far worse than the noisy home, the child's problems can not be resolved, the greatest responsibility for the family environmental factors. "The child's psychological changes, problems, often parents of the child observation is not enough, some of the needs of children, parents failed to timely meet."
In Xu's leaving school, for example, Li Xin Lu said, "It's like often said 'allergy' as psychological aversion to schools, the psychology is to make children 'desensitization'." The reporter Zhang Jing
Do you want kids all day long test scores
● Makino Pastoral 186: Promoting Schools set up psychological counseling courses, and now the child's mental capacity is too fragile.
● counselors Xiaoya: 11 years old, dangerous age, and the age of the child communication skills is very important,http://starrybbs.w136-e1.ezwebtest.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=42761, saying that bad,louboutin, can easily lead to bad consequences.
● watching the sunset boy: so children can not afford a setback or let him suffer a little bit on the outside is more appropriate. Also runaways,hogan outlet, Imagine grew to such students on the job, leading one to call you, you shot ass leave it? So we should let him suffer a little bit more than the outside.
● One Jianing Jing: China's education or to be scratched on how to protect themselves, do not spend all day going to score, score, nothing else will.