标题: Baohua said [打印本页] 作者: jtfOv9n6jg 时间: 2015-3-18 23:29 标题: Baohua said Yesterday was the first day after the Spring Festival, many people also leave for elderly parents, away from home,scarpe hogan, return to their work in the city. After a brief reunion, leaving countless lonely old man.
For the "empty nesters", how to face the loneliness,hollister soldes, and how their security ...... worth considering.
The first knock on the door,its street robbery regarding confessed. After preliminary investigation, the door closed, there is no sound. More than ten hours later, a second knock on the door, or did not respond. Saw the room there is a light at the time of going to leave, he heard a faint moan, bad premonition, call the police. Police rushed to the scene broke in sight confirmed his hunch old fainted in the kitchen ......
Was invited to accompany the elderly chat morning to knock on the door and no one answered
Mr. Wu lived in Xi'an, a family member courtyard containing yuan Road, at 11:00 on February 24, he and the elderly living in the same yard drive for a chat appointment time, he came about as the elderly,[/url], knock.
This is the old-fashioned family wings buildings, the elderly living in the 4th floor, the door is steel-like security doors, a loud sound will knock.
"The lights in the room seemed to be lit, but how did not respond to knocks,[url=http://www.menqiu.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=]in order to buy a house MG Senna, call landlines also no answer," Wu said, because it is a big day,louboutin femme pas cher, he thought the old man forget that they agreed the day before, out liuwan , and no care too much. This year 61 years old, living alone at home, went downstairs to the yard every day cruise.
Son of Mr. Wu and the elderly are classmates and friends,we must go all out sincere piety.
During the interview,peuterey prezzi, this is the only son of the elderly students, and perennial work in the field. So usually it makes Mr. Wu babysit elderly. A family member courtyard home, Mr. Wu always remember classmate exhortations, so often go to visit the elderly.
February 23, at the time of the call and the elderly, the elderly want to be able to go home, Mr. Wu on the 24th to chat with him, and he agreed. So, on the 24th morning, Mr. Wu came to the elderly.
The house at night to go knock on the door came a groan
The first knock on the door does not respond. 10 o'clock in the evening, Mr. Wu is not assured, again went to the home of the elderly. This time, there is a light shone through the room, knocked on the door but still no response.
Mr. Wu heart is full of suspicion, "and then is a mortar, so late, it will certainly come back." When he was about to leave, I heard a very slight groan came, he did not hear it, but it is determined to be from the elderly The room came,woolrich sito ufficiale, "Oh, the old man has been heart disease and high blood pressure, which will not ......"
Thought of this, Mr. Wu burst nervous. He quickly dialed 110 calls for help.
That was 22:55 Xu, Metro Police Branch Taihua Road police station police station, the post is still on duty in the police station and police instructor vast Zhang Yang received a good level alarm,woolrich parka, and quickly to the incident of the family member courtyard.
They depart from the police station, but also notice the 119 and 120. Soon, the three stocks while rescue forces gathered in the downstairs family member courtyard.
Police, fire broke in the corner of the old man lying on the kitchen
"The old man on the 4th floor, is more old-fashioned steel security door." Yang vast that they on the road and lock company to contact, but short-lived fad unlock the company can not be rushed,abercrombie outlet italia, because the situation is urgent, police and fire After selecting discuss directly break. Weiyang Road Xi'an Public Security Fire Brigade fire fighter squadron Zhu products that they use scissors to cut the door into the room.
This is a area of about 60 square meters of houses,basket nike requin, Bedroom. The old man lying on the kitchen corner, in a coma,Nanping Town, he dressed well, there are water stains on your clothes, there is blood on the nose, mouth also vomit. 120 emergency personnel found the old man still breathing, so we quickly rushed to the elderly Xijing Hospital for treatment.
Meanwhile, the son of the police and the elderly, as well as relatives in Xi'an get in touch.
Sudden cerebral infarction elderly family members thank everyone rescue
Old son to work in Xinjiang, 7 pm last night, the son of the elderly to fly back to Xi'an. China Daily reporter learned that the elderly sudden cerebral infarction, as of last night still in the rescue, the old man has not yet out of danger.
It is understood that the old man had just retired, divorced six years ago,woolrich prezzi, usually alone at home.
Cheng old man's son, 34, after he had finished in Xi'an, the 24 am train to Lanzhou, then turn the plane arrived in Urumqi, in the sudden illness of his father received a call, he did not take long to reach jobs.
Cheng said he has two children, the eldest son in the Bridge, and grandmother live together, half a year old daughter, who lives in Xianyang grandmother. His father usually the body is also good, and often see the grandchildren.
Cheng said that although parents after the divorce, he, together with his mother too, but that is the biological father, he would often greetings, he and his father discuss hire a nanny or live in a nursing home, was his father's opposition, desperation He usually only entrust friends and neighbors to help pay more attention to the situation of the elderly,moncler sito ufficiale, and more and the elderly chat.
"Whatever the outcome of the final rescue, and I'm very grateful to the students and the police, Mr. Wu,hogan outlet, either they rushed to the hospital for the elderly, but also maybe what is the result?" Last night, Cheng said this, it is very hard to accept.
& Gt; & gt; expert advice
If conditions permit parents to call every day for it
For this, the deputy director of the Institute of Psychology, Shaanxi Sunshine Baohua said: "Although the family has its particularity, but obviously, this is an empty nesters."
Baohua said: "empty nesters" generally refers to the middle-aged couple after their children leave home, even for the elderly is a divorced. With the deepening of the aging of society, has become an empty nester social issues can not be ignored, "now more than one-child families, when their children due to work, and marriage after leaving home, jealously guarding the 'empty nest' of middle-aged mental disorder symptoms arising therefrom couple called family 'empty nest' syndrome. "Because no children accompanied childless often greetings, these people will be very lonely, depressed,who lives in the city of Suzhou, frustrated. Old people like children need care, love, do not care about them, they will think that they are failures, resulting in psychological remorse.
"Empty nesters" how to live? Baohua said, first, the elderly have to make friends, build a circle of friends,woolrich sito ufficiale, so I have to talk to the object. Especially children to the "nest" of age, should be fully prepared to gradually reduce their children's attachment, in a timely manner to enrich the lives of new content, such as culture hobbies, establish new relationships, participation in various social activities and public welfare and labor.
There are some families, holiday children and the elderly together back over,"succeeded" Zhang duo, time to go to work, the children leave for "empty nesters", they rely on their children still persists.
"This is the Festival of empty nest syndrome," Baohua said that some elderly mental capacity is weak, even as children brought home the holiday feeling lost and fall into a state of depression, depressed patients become senile, "children Prior to return home, and parents to communicate properly, so that they have more understanding and support of parents bring home their own sense of loss is reduced to a minimum. Now the phone is powerful,second son, as long as the child is willing, conditions permitting, every day and parents communicate through voice or video. "
Baohua said the children even though busy, but also to invest emotionally, to ease the pain of the parents of missing.
In addition, the whole society should make concern for empty nesters, especially for those children in the field, there is no way to take care of elderly people, should improve the level of service pension community, the community should establish archives for empty nesters, should recruit volunteers or one neighbor were twinning assistance periodically visits and investigation on their health psychology.
This series of articles by Chinese Chinese Commercial News reporters Qing Rong and Bo Caixie
(Original title: the elderly living alone vaguely heard the groans of households with hospital rushed to the police (Figure))