标题: L1p8JDmFyU [打印本页] 作者: vfifrhkskm 时间: 2015-6-6 09:26 标题: L1p8JDmFyU Yesterday, the little girl Zhang Rui experience again by phone. Supermarket staff Rui heard her mother looking for, call out to lend her photo intern reporter Li wins
A 13-year-old girl, at her mother's situation can not wait, off Main Street in the East and everybody likes the supermarket door even passers by two mobile phones, no one to borrow, the little girl started to cry. At noon yesterday, the reporter witnessed the little girl go through the experience again, by phone, the results of only four out of ten people are willing to borrow, not with four people say, did not catch one of them said, there is one person said no electricity. Experience is completed, the little girl cried.
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Event
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March 10 afternoon
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Even passers by phone twice refused, the little girl in tears
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"In the past people have borrowed the phone, this is not why they lent me." Yesterday morning, talking about the previous day's experience, Zhang Rui (a pseudonym) again could not sad tears. 13-year-old Zhang Rui is a second year student, at 16:40 on March 10, after the training class, and so my mother went to the supermarket door, waited a few minutes and did not see her mother.
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Then Zhang Rui saw a 50-year-old woman standing in front of the supermarket, then said, "Grandma, I'm waiting for Mom, can you lend me the phone,http://www.shhjyuan.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2193253&extra=, please?" Said Zhang Rui.
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"Grandma who know me to find her mother, let me in here waiting on the line, and then left." Said Zhang Rui,louboutin homme pas cher, grandmother was gone, she went to the supermarket to find a circle mother, or did not find, so once again came to the supermarket door, this time she saw a more than 20-year-old aunt.
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"Auntie, can I use your phone about it, my mother came to pick me, who has not seen." Rui Zhang said at the time that were aunt said, "She was waiting for a friend, and immediately came out two minutes later, she and friend left. "said Zhang Rui, was also thought of using a public phone call, but no money.
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"Why not look for a third person, by telephone." The reporter asked. Zhang Rui said that the first two were rejected, she no confidence, and wanted to go home alone, ran into her mother had left far away, could not help but cry.
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Zhang Rui said, from kindergarten to elementary school and then high school, teachers have to teach them to be helpful, in her mind, we should be able to lend her,http://bbs.yxxgx.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=125324, "Why did not lift a finger to help people?"
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"See baby, I felt like she was crying, I asked experience, I was also very frustrated." Yesterday morning, Ms. Yin Rui Zhang's mother for her daughter's face in tears.
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Ms. Yin said at the time that she was late for the supermarket door for a while, is to give the children to buy fruit. Ms. Yin said, she usually encounter such a situation, and often use the telephone to lend to others, and this time also broke her heart.
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"This thing, I tangled a night, it seems a small thing, but it reflects a social problem." Ms. Yin said.
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Experience
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Yesterday afternoon, a reporter with the little girl and her mother once again to the little girl by the east off Main Street and everybody likes the supermarket entrance telephone refused, ready to go through the experience again by telephone. Experience rule is: a little girl with her mother can not find the need to borrow the phone, citing continued to find a stranger to help,http://448y.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=44736, to see how many people can lend the phone, the reporter then interviewed and loaned by people.
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4 people willing to take 10 people six people do not want to borrow, borrow and they did not hesitate to listen to reason
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Elderly couple yesterday 12:10
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One pair of elderly couple about 60 years out from the supermarket, Rui Zhang stepped forward, said: "Grandpa Hello, I am looking for missing mother, can I borrow your phone so I call it?" The old man hesitated slightly to Zhang Rui He said: "We have no telephone." hurriedly left, Rui Zhang's face filled with disappointment.
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Subsequently, after this visit the elderly away, reporters keep forward, asked why not give the little girl by phone, "We really did not take the phone, if the band, and will definitely lend her, the little girl looked very Poor. "They also said special patted his pocket.
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Red Jacket Woman 12:20
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12:20, Zhang Rui ran to a woman wearing a red jacket around, borrowed her phone. "Auntie, my mother and I got separated, can I borrow your cell phone to call my mom do?" The woman in red apart from anything else, took out his cell phone, dialed the phone to help Zhang Rui, the success by phone, Zhang Rui revealing a sweet smile.
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Interview by telephone or who subsequently called Rui, 26, is a staff member of all music supermarket food portions. She said it was she should do, "looked at the little girl eyes red, like a lie, before the entrance I also use the telephone to lend someone else, really doing anything." Rui said.
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Young man 12:35
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12:35, a young man carrying something from the supermarket, Rui Zhang went to him and said something by phone, before Zhang Rui finish, the man immediately shook his head impatiently said "no" and so his family from the supermarket, left together.
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Subsequently visited the man later told reporters that really have not, the girl would like to take the phone, he thought it was a child to sell the phone, if you know her by phone, then I gave up.
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A family of three 12:40
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12:40 and saw a family of three with a child out of the supermarket, Zhang Rui quickly stepped forward to them by phone, Zhang Rui said: "Auntie, I would like to take your cell phone with what, my mother and I got separated. "Ms. Zhang Rui looked suspect, replied:" I did not come out with a telephone, "and then left a family of three.
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Interview with reporters subsequently blocked by this family of three, the child's mother, "do not work on Sundays, usually the phone too busy today really did not take the phone."
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40-year-old woman 12:45
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12:45, a 40-year-old woman from the supermarket child pushed the car out, Zhang Rui ran in the past:. "Auntie, I would like to take your phone to call my mom," said Zhang Rui and her mother listen got separated the lady concerned immediately asked where her mother now, how become separated? Then she said, "I can help you fight it," he took out the phone and dialed her mother Zhang Rui phone, so she hurried over to her home.
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Then visit this name by phone man surnamed Du, 48 years old, many years ago, when her daughter in high school, he was a man posing as a teacher borrowed bike, made no return, so she borrowed this stuff situation, some concerns.
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"It was to see the little girl, the heart also have ideas, so I did not call her, but his dialed." Naidu said, to protect themselves, but also to help the little girl.
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50-year-old woman 12:50
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12:50, a 50-year-old lady came over, Rui Zhang stepped forward, said: "Grandma, could borrow your phone ......" No other Rui Zhang finished, Ms. waved, said: "I did not bring the phone . "
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Then you visit this lady 53 years old, she lived in a nearby supermarket, "to the supermarket buying things on the back, so I can not with a telephone, looking at her pitiful .. If you took the phone, and will definitely lend her. "12:55 Three men
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12:55, a line of three men out of the store, Zhang Rui in the past, said: "Uncle, can I borrow your phone do I find my mother gone?." Hearing this, the man immediately turned to the young man said: "Put the phone to a child with a look." One young man took out a cell phone and handed Zhang Rui, Rui Zhang called her mother's phone, after the finish of the phone back to each other, again and again thanks.
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Then you visit this middle-aged man named Jiao Bo, 45, "to see such a situation, it must help her, not to mention she was a little girl, this is supposed to do."
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Man wearing glasses 13:05
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13:05, a bespectacled young man came, Zhang Rui ran to borrow a mobile phone. Men alert looked around, asked in detail about Zhang Rui, encountered any trouble,http://shyx-zq.cc/home.php?mod=space&uid=6392, determine the situation, the man took out his cell phone and dialed her mother's phone Zhang Rui of Zhang Rui's mother said: "You're the girl in front of the supermarket Renrenle . looking for you, you quickly come to it. "Subsequently, the man to Zhang Rui said:" I can help you contact Well, your mother came over immediately, do not worry. "Then leave.
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Subsequently visited the man surnamed Chen, a 30-year-old, is a designer, working in Yanliang.
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Chen said that when former school,http://5457.co/thread-438697-1-1.html, there are two little girls borrowed money to him, he felt jeopardy, see Zhang Rui, he instinctively looked around, "see if there her associates, or suspicious people. "Mr. Chen said, as a precaution, he was not about to call to Zhang Rui, but their call," this case, if the other side has a problem, I can listen to them from the phone, make a phone call after the child The mother was very polite, I thought it should be true. "
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50-year-old wife 13:15
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13:15, the pair of 50-year-old couple out of the supermarket, said Zhang Rui heard borrow the phone,http://bbs.lljpzx.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=127484, man hide side says:. "I did not call, do not have" time to leave is also talking, said: "a look lie. "Hearing this, Zhang Rui and red eyes.
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Reporter subsequently visited the couple stopped to ask why did not the telephone lend little girl, the man said, "I did not bring the phone, if it took Zeneng loaned."
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Young woman 13:20
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13:20, a young woman with a little boy came out from the supermarket, went to the woman in front of Zhang Rui, borrowed her cell phone, the woman carefully looked at Zhang Rui, and then told her: "I phone battery died . "with the children gone.
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Then visit this lady say phone battery died, but leave the little girl soon took out his cell phone to play, and others call back, "Why not just give the little girl by the phone." Faced with a reporter asked, this Ms. answer is very simply, "No one told me to take the phone ah!"
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Experience complete crying little girl and her mother
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13:30, the experience is completed, Zhang Rui tears streaming down again, she felt that too few people to help her, even the experience also appears to be helpless.
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"Just talking on the phone did not power the lady, I really want to stop and ask her, why did not hesitate to call me daughter." Ms. Yin's tears flow down. She said that in the fourth man did not give time to time by telephone, she received her husband's phone, "her husband said, do not experience, come back."
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Ms. Yin said, she has been teaching her teenage daughter to helping others, and now after this, she is not even doubt that educate children. "I hope that through this, more people wake the conscience."
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In Zhang Rui opinion, all this is not as she imagined, how teachers teach and the school is not the same, she feels aggrieved. At the end of the experience, her tears suddenly flooded out.
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At this point, far stood the mother Ms. Yin has long been unable to control his tears, she ran, pulling small hand Zhang Rui, the two tears, went straight away.
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Do not want to borrow a mobile phone to see how the public
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Now, some people doubt too
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During the interview, the reporter also interviewed a number of people, for that matter, by telephone, saying a lot.
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Mr Li believes the issue by phone, reflects not borrow loaned problem, but a social problem, sometimes, really can not blame others. He said that the small Yue Yue incident (October 13, 2011, 2-year-old Yue Yue sequentially laminated two vehicles in Foshan Huangqi Guangfo Hardware City, 7 minutes, 18 passers-by ignored, the last one picking aunt imposed help, triggering hot friends.) does not help the elderly fall help, etc. After media reports, it also raised the people's thinking, every adult in the face of such problems, have their own judgments, for example, she is not a lie,polo ralph lauren pas cher, if you help yourself, and will not adversely on their own.
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Ms. Ho is also a citizen parents, her son had had a similar thing, in fact, we do not care about phone bills,louboutin pas cher femme, but now people feel about everything skeptical, "thinking too much."
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Mr. Pei has had similar experiences, they have time did not bring the phone, ready to let his wife gets here, "in asking several people, there are young men and women, there are the elderly, but we do not borrow, and finally a cleaner mobile phone He lent me, and now want to come, but also emotionally. "
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Experts say children mistreated
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Values helpful should insist
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Turning to the matter, Shaanxi Province Mental Health Education Research Association Song Xin said by phone frustrated, so that small Rui Zhang young mind by the trauma, but also began to reflect on their past, helping others is not right, this is a very critical period, this time, parents and teachers should firmly tell the child: "caring for others, help others, to lend a hand when others encounter difficulties, everyone should do." Tell children build positive, positive values, telling her even if hit,http://www.shhjyuan.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2193441, but the correct values and value orientation can not be changed.
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"Today's society, the lack of trust between people, there is a strong psychological readiness, it can not be said to be wrong, a lot of people are afraid of being taken, when the first reaction is to prevent other people for help, which is understandable." Song Xin said, "but we should as much as possible to protect and help the weak if you are skeptical, you can tell her solution to the problem, he suggested that she play a public phone, she borrowed some change, etc; Or you can take her to a safe the environment, then lent her mobile phone, so deal with the problem, will not cause their own safety problems, but also to help to people who need help. "
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Our reporter Liu Lichun hair honey Na
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Editor
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Zhang Rui appears in small things she encountered "how and school teachers to teach is not the same,http://www.famousfor5.com/ff5forum/viewtopic.php?pid=651761#p651761," which made her feel very aggrieved.
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We do not intend to be loaned phones citizen moral judgment. However, children often like a piece of paper, they have in mind the world is beautiful and pure, which requires dealing with the adult world and the child's relationship, which everyone show more trust, helping others social virtues, especially in the "very critical" child ages. In addition, teachers and parents in the education process, the need to make children understand that frustration is a life experience that they must experience the growth path, as experts said, to establish a positive,boutique louboutin paris, positive values, even if hit,louboutin femme pas cher, the right values and values not change. As long as the eyes can see the positive side of goodness, hearts will be filled with sunshine.
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