标题: EYt13Bpj6V [打印本页] 作者: ujdta11078 时间: 2015-7-2 21:05 标题: EYt13Bpj6V Not many children of their grandchildren, and no foreign children Huijia see. 78-year-old father Lee judgments especially in his later years alone, we are looking for people Laoke, listen to his army meritorious Swing heroic story. Lee uncle deaf and "annoying" to make wishes out of reach, he still stood in the doorway and looked toward the children home.
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Recently, the old man came to Pengzhou court Mengyanghong court oral prosecute his two children to give to their own spiritual support, "filial to both,http://stocks.wagware.com/mediawiki/index.php?title=User:Njabx140740#MkPgHlDHJQ, not only to give me money, but also Huijia look around to take care of me. "
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Helpless prosecution
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A month ago,http://www.59ar.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=116186, his wife and son to Pengzhou Township Mongolian wife and children live. July 13, Lee judgments alone came to Mongolia Pengzhou Township, he did not go to children home, but directly into the sun Mongolian court, tell the children not filial, somewhat excited.
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Complain
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Two daughters and a son and did not take less money to him and his wife, but that does not make profit institutions satisfied.
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Li Huaying daughter and two sons Lee Hua Meng Town in Pengzhou settled,air max outlet, daughter Lee Ping's home more than 10 miles away from her family. Once his father shoulders kid actor, and now have parents, grandparents and even fast become. "I have to feed a family, eat a lot of pain, they have forgotten it?" Lee ordinances sad eyes dripping tears. He complained that it had been memorized coal, back pain too are not straight up, and kept over poultry.
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Profit institutions in the depths of memory, the number of children who married after returning less and less. Only a small daughter be closer, the number of brothers and sisters to come back a little more than that. Father of three children afraid to spend money, usually the money to his mother, dominated by his mother living expenses. At this point, Lee judgments opinions are large, he felt no affinity with his children, toward her mother. "I have no one to speak, Mende Huang." Profit institutions solitude can not tell the people. He even thought of death, that one day less a day, and let the children give him a good looking piece of feng shui cemetery.
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Complain
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A month ago, his wife and son, wife and children to live. July 13,http://www.0546114.net/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=264999, Lee judgments alone came to Mongolia Pengzhou Township, he did not go to children home, but directly into the sun Mongolian court, tell the children not filial, somewhat excited. He did not complaint, verbal prosecution. Although it did not complaint, received full consideration to judge Xu Tao Li judgments age is 78 years old,louboutin france pas cher, can sue the filing, according to his oral and written pleadings for him.
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We spent a lot of effort, and the judge to clarify the interest ordinances home address and address of every child. Xu Tao quick access to the whole capital of the county government with high-rise town, learned profit institutions participated in the Korean War, still standing over the medals. The local civil affairs department has its handling policy should enjoy, although its sons and daughters who work but also often send money to the elderly, but he always felt children should take care of themselves around. Xu Tao, director of the whole and the local judicial HUANG Yanliang twists and turns, finally contacted old daughter Li Huaying. She and President Xu Tao sword in whole learned that Li Hua Li Huaying and siblings do to maintenance obligations on the matter.
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Mediate
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"I never thought his father would tell us." Li Huaying expressed surprise, she took her sister had just mailed to a 500 yuan remittance, allow her to mother for two old pocket money. Li Huaying said she did not forget upbringing from their parents. In the view of Judge children done to the maintenance obligations. Xu Tao chuan, former maintenance dispute have filed a complaint before the mediation. When mediation, Lee judgments not only to the children to give him money, often go home to visit him and take care of him. Lee judgments that although the eldest daughter and son return home once or twice a year, but the number is too small, and he needs people to take care of poor health, often go home to see is the maintenance part.
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After mediation, Lee Huaying his father received at home.
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"You have to often come home to visit his parents, old people are very lonely." Judge Lee persuade children just is not enough money,http://www.anancj.com/news/html/?73597.html, but also spiritual support, Lee nodded Huaying "Huijia see", and told his younger brother at home temporarily Li Hua. "Father in my house just for a moment, that stay accustomed to,http://ym99.net/home.php?mod=space&uid=50723, and returned to his old home." Li Huaying frustration. "I also want children Huijia see, but I understand, they are more busy." Wude Fang said.
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Lonely elderly
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Always looking for someone to talk to
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No one listening to him
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Sick, ear hearing is not good, older, inevitably ramble, the village a lot of people do not like to talk to him. But he, people always want to talk, distraction inner loneliness. So he only stood in the doorway, looking at the way children home ......
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"Buildings everywhere, chimed in." Rise concentrated in Zizhong County town village its name. And Lee ordinances home is mud house, a beautiful tune with the surrounding brick house surrounded. House uninhabitable due to earthquake damage,louboutin pas cher femme, Lee ordinances and his wife to find relatives to borrow more than 10 meters of a dwelling barn down. Within the warehouse was cluttered all kinds of debris, it exudes an unpleasant musty.
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Lee judgments stern gray-haired,http://lingshanxian.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=21694, slovenly, a solemn expression on his face wrinkled, emphysema and bronchitis and other diseases are also perennial haunt him. "You and he says to eat it? He could answer me quick 80 a." In recent years, Lee judgments deafness badly, unless someone else close to his ear and says loudly, he can answer correctly,http://kfshy.kf.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=300976&extra=, so basically did not and his speech .
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73-year-old wife Wude Fang even some bother him, free will to Pengzhou small children lived period of time. Lee judgments then I was lonely, and he made a meal a day and sometimes blister packs of instant noodles to deal with it. Lee judgments quiet, usually do not ye out of the house, nor to join the crowd. In addition to his distant memory, what seems to have been no more intimate conversation. Neighbor to determine whether he was at home, watching his house are open or not.
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"Do you hear him talk, he and some ramble, irritated." Many people in the village did not want to talk to Lee judgments that have a generation gap, but also a look of fear of being sprayed spittle star. Others think he is a bit like "Aunt Xianglin", always repeating said, but Lee judgments since deafness is becoming increasingly looking for someone to talk to.
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Neighbors impression in the number of children who benefit laws do not come back, and we have to focus on his family did not gnaw. It was speculated that this may be the main reason for the old man more lonely. Thus, only the elderly often stood in the doorway, looking at the way the children returned.
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Busy children
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We also understand
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You can work really busy
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"My father asking too much, but we can not do." Lee institutions mentioned in the "Huijia see", the three children are well aware of, but each frustration and difficulties. "After Dad deafness, the character becomes somewhat strange." Three children have the same feeling.
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Daughter Li Huaying
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44-year-old Li Huaying known to the court action against his father, miserable, frustrated. Her family more room is small, 11-year-old daughter, and she also slept crammed. Li Huaying admitted that he really is not much to go home to visit his father often, once or twice a year. "Ground to be busy, but also to care for his daughter. Father and was recently surgery, has need care." Li Huaying explained his difficulties. "My father had come lived, but he and my elderly character do not come together." Li Huaying said his father would pick me reason, think of her in-laws, and on the Qindie bad.
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"Not to be a day, he must, and I fight." Li Huaying said. Li Huaying remember age of seven, she was a high fever at night, the father of her back more than 10 years to the town hospital for injections, have dared to rest halfway, which she has been very memorable.
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Son Li Hua
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42-year-old Li Hua in town to buy a new building, but the house is only 70 square meters, a person just enough to live, unable to take his father to old age. Li Hua Anping renovation when played with odd jobs, time is working confinement, can not leave, a person's whole life counting on that wage. Unilateral going back to a home more than three hours, round trip tolls 100 yuan. Li Hua twice a year or so to go home to visit his parents, the general election in the New Year and Mid-Autumn Festival. He knew enough to take care of their parents, will give more than 1,000 yuan a year allowance to compensate for the heart of the guilty. Li Hua remember not suffer less beat his father when he was studying, his father wanted him to university entrance exam, but he did not realize his father wishes.
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Daughter Li Ping
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Li Ping family open quarries, very busy. Her parents away near empty go home to visit his father sometimes to walk her home. "Because of his relative home more, they go back to a few yuan pocket money, and sometimes chartered to take him to see a doctor." Lee Ping said his father to sue brother, my sister, she Quanguo not to sue, they also have difficulties, but father heard advised.
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"Spiritual support" or will the law
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Lee judgments would not have thought the old man, he is precisely this spirit that demands long ago, "elderly Protection Act" (Revised Draft) in one of the hot contents. Of June this year, the revised draft "elderly Protection Act" in the "solace" in the provisions of the chapter, "in the spirit of family members must not be ignored, isolated elderly, and elderly dependents living separately,nike air max pas cher, often to visit or greetings to the elderly. "
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Liaoning since October 1, 2008 implementation of the "Liaoning Province elderly Protection Ordinance" provides "support for the elderly people should fulfill obligations spiritual comfort, and the elderly do not live together, and should always greeting to visit." This Bill is the first time the "Huijia look" into local laws and regulations, the elderly may accordingly proceedings.
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Editor
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The law is not cold to warm elderly
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"Huijia look" not written into law, reliable moral heritage, respecting the traditional social pension two thousand years old love so complete. Confucius said, "parents do not travel to distant lands," in fact, is to educate people to give parents the emotional solace.
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Lee sued judgments children, we believe that he was exhausted by all means do not let children but chose "Huijia look" after. However, even if the law so that the children return to him, but the law is difficult to get his life back warm.
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Once, Who old parents alone, the people around them enough to drown his saliva. With the economic and social development, people break the habit settled agricultural society, began to frequent migration. Migration has become the norm in this society, people always have a variety of legitimate reasons for the elderly empty nest, and our opinion, it seems to be more tolerant. Public opinion is useless, so the old man had walked into the courtroom,tn pas cher femme, so "Huijia look" into the draft law.
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China since ancient times, interest litigation claims, because complain always mean decorum skin. Just think, by rigid enforcement of the law to the family, it is how hard and cold, which can meet the emotional needs of the elderly it? I only hope, "Huijia look" return to everyone's moral, and return to everyone's sense of shame,http://bbs.chaods.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=320723, and this will have a real warmth.
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After all, everyone will grow old.