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Mother gave birth to his brother
8-year-old brother, said the dream to kill him
Individual couples confused: born two children, large child temperament changed
"Too lonely only child, brother and sister have a companion, childhood happier."
"Especially like children, children at home more lively."
"Health and two children, after the pressures they support the elderly is not so big."
March 26 this year, Chongqing formally implemented separately Two-child policy. As of the end of April, just a month's time the city had 6,580 pairs of couples to apply for re-birth. Two children born of the reasons are different, the same, the second child of parents believe that the family will bring happiness, rather than worry.
However, many have two parents, but deep trouble among the re-affiliated Children's Hospital psychologist recently received many such cases.
Chongqing Evening News reporter trainee reporter Tan Tao Jie Lu Kun
Mother gave birth to his brother
4-year-old sister to go to school again
"Little, obediently go to school today, okay? Mom loves you." Yesterday morning, who lives in Chongqing Yubei district of Anlong are Miss Choi began to persuade her daughter to kindergarten, the answer is still the daughter refused to cry. 4 year old little tight adhesion mother every day, refused to leave half a step. In this case, the Miss Choi appeared after giving birth to second child this year.
31-year-old Miss Choi said, had intended to have a second child, is to let her daughter multiple partners,parajumpers salg norge, childhood happier. Before pregnancy, she asked many times small, small very happy to answer "I wanted a brother and sister."
Unexpectedly,http://hyougosoap.s102.xrea.com/cgi/j/j.cgi?mode=res&no=3362, along with her mother growing belly, a little more intense insecurity, more sticky, she always have to follow her. Little originally promised and parents bed to sleep,abercrombie pas cher, suddenly reluctant, even my father lying in the middle of them. Pregnant in September, when the action is very difficult, little remains to help her bathe, dress her mother.
Miss Choi said that since her husband busy with work to do sales, home for the elderly in the field, she was a daughter is almost 1 year old man with a prior. Probably because of this reason, her daughter showed her extraordinary attachment. Thought of it, she told her daughter to take care of more thin, but also to her husband, mother mobilized together with her daughter,http://staythai.livedoor.biz, so she felt surrounded by full of love.
March of this year, his son was born 20 days diarrhea again and again spits,basket nike tn homme, Miss Choi was not eye the night together, become irritable temper. Look mom holding little brother all day, talking tone is not good, change again intensified.
"She did not want to go to school, as if I'd gone off like one. She cried every day, sometimes before going to bed to cry, and sometimes cry at night, get up in the morning and sometimes cry." Miss Choi said, because her daughter refused to go to school, She first beat her, the result is worse. My daughter has a few himself: "I go, I do not want to you." A man spooked. No way,http://www.swindonreds.co.uk/forums/t/510816.aspx, yesterday,http://z-tech.jp/bbs1/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=5400&page=1,moncler outlet ufficiale, she brought her daughter into the Children's Hospital psychologist.
Mother gave birth to his brother
8-year-old brother to kill him talking in your sleep
For the psychological impact of large child born two children, and re-affiliated Children's Hospital psychologist Professor Mei Qixia talked about a deep impression on her case.
2011, Tongnan Wang couples with 8-year-old son came to Children's Hospital shiny to Mei Qixia help.
Mr. Wang has two sons. He said the eldest son grew very obedient bright,moncler sito ufficiale, very docile, has recently become very abnormal, do not do their homework, do not read books, but also no reason to cry. There are several night, shiny shouting in his sleep: "kill his brother, killed his brother, pushed him down!" Another time, he was in a dream muttering: "No wonder my brother, I love my brother. "
"I was cold sweat coming out, so the smaller toddlers how would do such a dream? Asked him, he started to cry, not to speak." Mr. Wang some doubts, shiny usually like my brother, but for several days , say similar nonsense, the couple really afraid would happen.
In the clinic, the shiny looks very cute, and no abnormal behavior. Mei Qixia separate conversation with shiny nearly one hour, finally, shiny heart say: "Mom and Dad are like my brother, do not like me,hogan italia, the neighbors also said his brother is smarter than me." Shiny wronged cry stand up.
Liang Liang said, in fact he is very fond of his brother,air max pas cher homme, but he felt left out when his own father and mother, my heart had a grudge against his brother. He also knows that, you should not hate his brother, they should be well-behaved little,http://www.mapfan.com/spotdetail.cgi, I did not expect frequent nightmares at night and dream of his brother and killed him. He often awakened from a nightmare during the day did not go to school spirit.
Mother gave birth to his brother
4-year-old sister, crying quietly pinch him
"I think my brother and sister to a brother and sister of 'hostility',moncler spaccio online, probably a lot of innate ingredients." When it comes to the topic of Health and two children, 39-year-old Zhang Minghui believes that children older brother and sister would be much point There wariness, she is the most vivid case.
Zhang Minghui born in Wanzhou District, now a main city departments and units of work, Jiangbei District Jinsha Building 5, who lives in the waterfront district. Her 4 year old, my mother gave birth to a brother.
Zhang Minghui said to have two days, three children are very common thing,scarpe hogan uomo, not like today, so solemnly. For adults, this son was born, is a happy event for granted, but at the time of Zhang Minghui,http://tonzawa.godream.ne.jp/cgi-bin/aska/aska.cgi, there are different feelings.
"My parents were not the kind of son preference, we have been feeling good,hogan uomo outlet, but then I just do not like this brother." Zhang Minghui said, was too young at that time was hard to say what is the idea, but She also remembers that he treated his brother quite unfriendly.
"The first time I went to see my brother is, and many adults go together." Zhang Minghui said, when people looked at the big kids, just outside the gossip, she took advantage of the adults do not pay attention, pinch his brother's arm, his brother pinch have burst into tears.
Heard the cries, the big people coming in from the outside have to coax his brother, no one thought was a little girl cry house brother. Great people to coax the children finished,http://www13.plala.or.jp/gakuki3/cgi_bin/aska/aska.cgi, once again leaving, Zhang Minghui once again to pinch his brother cry.
"It was probably afraid of his brother rivalry it." Zhang Minghui said four year old he did not sensible, first met, my brother did not offend themselves, this hostility is like a natural. She even suspected that this subconscious compete parental care behavior is the result of evolution.
"We can not simply look at the values ??of the adult child's behavior." Zhang Minghui said,giubbotti moncler outlet, now looking back, a lot of little brothers and sisters, when the relationship is not good, often quarrel fight, but is sensible only after more close. Compared to this almost innate "hostile", she thinks a greater role acquired education.
Parents want to have two children
9-year-old daughter crying get yellow
2008, 34-year-old initiation of two children born of the idea. At the time, she and her husband are working in state-owned banks, family economic conditions are relatively well-off. Although her husband has a sister and a younger brother, born two children do not meet the family planning policy, the couple decided to give birth.
Because of state-owned enterprises policy restrictions, to give birth to two children, the couple were switched to a joint-stock commercial banks and one foreign bank. They also fined ready to start doing pregnancy preparations.
At this moment everything is ready,http://home.beamed.com/search/search.cgi, 9-year-old daughter, born two children suddenly became their biggest obstacle. Chen Ningting said at the beginning, she just tentatively asked his daughter, does not want want a brother or sister, the daughter said, shaking his head every time is not good. She and her husband felt that her daughter has been 9 years old, has been able to express their ideas correctly. Now that her daughter is also home to one, two children born this event, it should respect her opinions, so they decided to open a family meeting.
"Compared to before tentatively asked, the family meeting is very serious." Chen Ningting said the family meeting, she and her husband almost a daughter to be treated as an adult. "We very seriously at first told her father Mom wants to give her a brother or sister born, and economic conditions at home are also affordable, quality of life will not fall. "The couple also told her daughter, whether or not brother and sister, father and mother's love for her will not be reduced one more new family members, family atmosphere will be more enjoyable, and more.
Despite their daughter as a little adult, usually fairly sensible daughter, but this time there is no reason to tell. "She did not say anything for fear of being left out of that kind of thing, almost nothing to say, just crying, trouble." Chen Ningting said that the face of this situation, she and her husband did not mind.
"Originally daughter and we are very close, we do not want to give birth to two children to come up with family conflicts." Chen Ningting said, because her daughter strongly disagreed, she and her husband finally decided to give up. Although not able to regenerate a little disappointed, but the one for so long in the past,jordan pas cher femme, and secondly own age is big, this thing just do not care.
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