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27-year-old son: multiple escape girlfriend points, quit work, the phone off, the idea that only one --- just want to live their own way
Yesterday morning, is located in the intersection of the two pioneering hotel, guests get up early to wash out. 608 rooms, cubicle less than 7 square meters, the 57-year-old man in Hebei ACTUATORS also got up, sat on the bed, repeating the same action 18 days to come: pick up the phone, dial a phone number beginning with 158. Telephone communication, waiting for the sound of "beep" sounds, still no answer ...... phone number owner, is the son of ACTUATORS Ranjie Xi (a pseudonym).
2009,chaussures giuseppe zanotti, 冉杰希 from Southwest Normal University graduate, who live in the mother-child relationship has undergone enormous changes. Today, the "war" between mother and child continued for almost three years: to persuade his son to return home to work in state-owned enterprises, 10 Lai Yu ACTUATORS three years, from the initial persuade them, but later she played, scolded, also downtown too ...... 3 years, 27-year-old mother to escape Ranjie Xi, moved three times at home, his girlfriend did not, quit work, and now he does not want his mother goodbye.
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This is the 10th time in Chongqing ACTUATORS purpose in the past, to find his son, and brought him back into the state-owned Hebei home, if possible, she would like to untie the knot and son. She said, "into the state-owned enterprises to secure, and can not understand is why my son pains."
10th Lai Yu, to see her son
Room No. 608, less than 7 meters, 40 yuan per accommodation, ACTUATORS has lived 18 days. 18 days ago, she still had no son of news, she played more than 100 calls, the 158 number is either shutdown or no answer ......
Yesterday morning, crying in ACTUATORS calm down again, she intends to give his son a massage, I hope he can come see the side of the hotel, "the phone is not connected, an SMS will always look at it " But after a few seconds, ACTUATORS or give up, "he hates me now so what are futile!"
February 23, ACTUATORS carrying a large black suitcase, again in Chongqing North Railway Station, which is three years, she came 10th in Chongqing. And on previous occasions, ACTUATORS came from thousands of miles away in Chongqing, Hebei, only one purpose: Hebei son back home, into the state-owned enterprises, "He did not go back, I will not go!"
But soon, ACTUATORS some panic, she found: After a heated argument with his son several times, she may never see a son.
"He (son) moved, resigned, and I ran out of way, but I could not find him ......" Speaking of his son,parka woolrich, his head in pain ACTUATORS. She says that her son's Bierbuxian let her purpose of this trip has changed, "Now, I just want to open the knot between us, like a normal mother like to get along."
"I told his son between how did it " 18 days ago, ACTUATORS pondered this question.
Before graduation, mother and very caring
Hebei Gaobeidian ACTUATORS people, two sons Ranjie Xi was born in 1985, had a very caring mother.
"Young, I took three children followed their father traveling, my kids are very sticky." ACTUATORS says that her husband is the iron workers, 22 office buildings four companies, often where people project where, and three children, she Loved Airanjiexi.
"Second hit small achievement like, 18 years old, he was admitted to key universities to Chongqing." ACTUATORS said Ranjie Xi university, after graduating from the University of Brother Ran Jieqin smoothly into the state-owned enterprises where his father work.
Eldest son of employment make ACTUATORS very pleased, "state-owned stable,hogan sito ufficiale, guaranteed." Human Resource Management in learning second son Ranjie Xi,air max pas cher, ACTUATORS been very reassuring, "read key university, a good professional to learn, very clever man, graduated last in state-owned enterprises, and certainly no problem. "
ACTUATORS say, into state-side iron rice bowl, is the expectation that she and her husband of three children. But she anticipated that this became her second son conflicts caused the fuse, "now irreconcilable."
Suffering mother
18 days to play more than 100 calls, the son did not take
"You look at me, look like a 50-year-old man " Pointing ACTUATORS deep deep wrinkles in the face, "It's three years, I am at least 10 years old."
"You're pathetic, I hate you!" ACTUATORS said she will always remember after a heated argument, the son mercilessly thrown sentence.
"I'm really sorry, son painstakingly not understand, but I have so worthy of his hate it " 18 days, ACTUATORS also continue as the ideological struggle "between me and my son, how did it " She said. that he had thought of giving up, because then forced to go on like this, my son could hide forever, "but let it go, he was supposed to in the future "
ACTUATORS said quarrel with his son for three years, she was tired, "our home, older people like me, with the grandchildren are enjoying the ...... but I can not give up, one day, I will persuade him to return home into state-owned enterprises. "
Last night, far away in the home of his wife rushed to Chongqing 冉成庭 also departed, he hopes to persuade his wife or son, "for three years, so the whole family can not dispute has been living a normal life."
Mother said & gt;
"This is three years old, I am at least 10 years old."
Son & gt;
"Endless bickering, I nearly collapsed."
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2009, Ranjie Xi graduated from college, find a job, he also became the parents of the hotline telephone. "We are repeatedly told, to find a regular, stable job." ACTUATORS said, "the children of his father's unit within the system are eligible to go to work, but at the time did not places of."
In that year, Ranjie Xi parents began to oppose the concept of employment. After several rounds of discussion, 冉杰希 stay in Chongqing, in a trading company, thinking about her son's work in this unstable, ACTUATORS not always practical, "We asked around, trust relationship, you want your child to be stabilized as soon as possible."
After the interview, he did not go
Soon after, her husband brought good news. "His father asked the old leadership, let him go to China Railway 22 Bureau of five companies to report, this unit in Chongqing." ACTUATORS say what happened next, so she can not accept, "he took the file to the company, interviews are over, but I heard that first workout to remote areas, but still left. "
Soon, ACTUATORS personally arrived in Chongqing, she hopes to convince his son --- "Even to start from the grassroots level, whatever the outcome is state-owned, need not worry about food to eat for a lifetime."
At first,woolrich parka, the mother and son still good communication, ACTUATORS also went to the home of his son's girlfriend, "I do also want to be able to soften him." But ACTUATORS discovered that his son did not accept her point of view.
A few days later, he fled again
To September 2010, the son of state-owned enterprises into the chance again, this time ACTUATORS cherish.
"At that time, the children can come back to solve the employment of workers, which is a great opportunity!" ACTUATORS said that although his son had graduated a year, "but I find his father cheek units everywhere plea, the unit finally agreed to receive him." Human Resource Management son school counterparts, have to go to learn to go in, "the unit said to send them to the Shijiazhuang Railway Institute Weipei study for 2 years."
"After answered,giuseppe zanotti basket pas cher, we immediately told him the good news, but he has not the slightest interest." ACTUATORS said his son see this attitude, she felt wronged, but has endured. Later,giacca woolrich, his son simply do not answer the phone, "No way, I and his father only to Chongqing, to get him back."
After coming to Chongqing, ACTUATORS furious. At the intersection of the two rental to see his son, ACTUATORS no longer control their emotions, "I quarrel with him, cursed, what terrible curse me what I want to scold him awake!" After half a month after the noisy, son finally relented, after the National Day Hebei back home, but just after Zhefan toss, ACTUATORS also clearly felt, no longer willing to talk to her son.
Soon after, let ACTUATORS did not expect happened: the day before the tuition, the son of a phone call from Shijiazhuang:! "  It do not pay tuition okay" "No," the father's negative reply, although the 5000 yuan son tuition to the school. But a few days did not read, he decided to leave.
Persistent son
Contradiction upgrade
Twice to give up, he just wants to live in their own way
Force children to go home, she sold her son's computer and clothing
18 days ago, his mother insisted no longer answer the phone. He said he is also suffering this, choose to avoid, because it had enough bickering 3 years. He said, "I just want to follow their own way of life, why can the mother refused to let go "
According to the mobile phone number provided ACTUATORS, Chongqing Morning News reporters Lian Xidao and Ran Jiexi. Ranjie Xi said, "This year the endless bickering, let me near collapse."
Today, Ranjie Xi found the first four jobs he graduated, he also knows that his mother again to Chongqing to find something, "my sister sent me a text message, but I can not see her, this 18 days, for me also suffering. "
冉杰希 said before graduation, he and his mother is very intimate, "every week to make long distance calls home, and asked her father's situation." "My mom wanted me to go to state-owned enterprises,woolrich outlet, but I want to go their own way of life, instead of guarding an iron rice bowl, nothing exciting to live a life. "
冉杰希 said that initially, between him and the mother can calmly communicate, but after a time to quarrel,hogan sito ufficiale 2014, contradictions begin the upgrade, the mother and son to each other can not convince each other, "In 2010, my mother sold my stuff in Chongqing, which once started, I do not wish to communicate with her. "
"Every time my mom to Chongqing,scarpe hogan outlet, are noisy, but also to my unit to go downtown, I can not stand fast, but she was my mother, I can only be patient, choose to escape." 冉杰希 said he was working at a magazine , have been developing very smoothly, the monthly salary of about 5,000 yuan, has begun planning a mortgage to buy a house, to make life a step by step to stabilize. But in the eyes of the mother,peuterey outlet online, it is not state-owned enterprises, but also not stable enough, he was eventually forced to give up the job.
After that, Ranjie Xi and his girlfriend broke up, "I have been unable to live a normal life, but I also hope that she (the girlfriend) a normal life."
"I was forced to quit her job, moved, with his girlfriend parted ...... but they can not stop the bickering." For a mother's love, Ranjie Xi's argument is that they can understand, and very grateful, but can not afford.
Ranjie Xi feel, not into the state-owned enterprises, the end of the iron rice bowl, be considered to amount to anything, "but that the mother can not understand."
For Mother Lai Yu again, 冉杰希 said whether he has been struggling to meet again, each time the mother called and did not dare to answer despite himself, but always feel uncomfortable, "I'm not gone, but dare not goodbye, because each meeting, will eventually become endless insults and arguments, I do not want to repeat, do not want to stimulate the mother. "
冉杰希 said that when his mother left the previous Chongqing, he went off, "she biting bite me, I know she hates me."
ACTUATORS said his son this time to give up the opportunity to enter state-owned enterprises,woolrich parka, so that she could not tolerate, early last year, she came third in Chongqing.
Sell ​​clothes forced her son
"I did not give up, parents to make arrangements properly, why you just do not listen to it " ACTUATORS said, this time to Chongqing, she was determined,christian louboutin pas cher, no matter what approach we should also bring back the son of Hebei,air max 90 leopard pas cher, "I can not give up working relationship with his son's lifetime of happiness, he too, is still unaware of. "
But this meeting, mother and son bickering begin upgrading --- smash things, to find a neighbor judge ...... ACTUATORS also went to his son's unit, to find leaders, hoping to help his son doing the work, advised him to return home after several fruitless negotiations After ACTUATORS and son relationship, it becomes more and more tense.
In ACTUATORS seems reluctant son to return home is also a factor, that is, he was the girlfriend Chen. "No way, I only went to her unit trouble, I hope she let go of my son." ACTUATORS said, even if you are doing too much, but one day his son felt the importance of stability, there will always be grateful to know.
Next, to Chongqing ACTUATORS frequency much more frequently, on average, two months aboard Chongqing run once every attitude is very clear: to bring his son back to Hebei. "Last year I came to Chongqing six times, and sometimes also followed his father together, each meeting will quarrel."
Mother and son become incompatible, to meet noisy, always broke. "That, I really can not, we sold him a computer, clothes and quilts in Chongqing, forced him to return home."
Fight between brothers
More than 20 days later, his son home, and still participate in the National Day cousin's wedding, but this time the family home but also to continue to escalate conflict.
"It's a few years for him, and I physically and mentally exhausted, the eldest son, and many relatives looked distressed." ACTUATORS said two sons coming back, naturally became the object of persuading the family, "and he and his brother had a falling out, Later, the two brothers also played shelf. "
Soon after, his son left home again, came to Chongqing. But he shut the phone, moved, family could no longer contact him.
"Late last year,giuseppe zanotti homme, he was able to get through the phone, but I could not answer our phone, then we switched telephone call him, or do not take ......" Last December 27, ACTUATORS arrived in Chongqing, to his son's girlfriend Chen I called, "This know they broke up ......."
New Year, Hebei son back home, but then again away from home, "his father walk, I'll find myself in Chongqing."
This time, three years ACTUATORS 10th to Chongqing to find his son. More than 10 days later, she was never able to see his son.
Edition text / chief reporter intern Liubing Xin Wang Shan
18 days, the number 608 in the room mother, has become a topic to talk about their guests, and they reached the Chongqing Morning hotline, hoping to help the mother, to end this "war" between her son. So, we are told the story of the mother and son.
Born in the 1960s ACTUATORS not understand his son's 80 ideas for jobs, the son could not convince his mother, escalating conflict between mother and child. But the story behind it is to highlight the concept of employment of two generations of the conflict, in this conflict, we see that being alienated maternal love, the pain of a mother and son.
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