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Deeply entangled
Daughter, father forgive Portal quote request
What to conceal the truth, OK Expert: The key is to look at the patient's psychological qualities
58-year-old father was diagnosed colon cancer, to allow the elderly not to lose faith,fendi lunette de soleil, active treatment, five filial children & ldquo; conspiracy & rdquo; lied to him, & ldquo; Dad, you just stomach longer a thing, the doctor said not a big problem certainly can cure & hellip; & hellip; & rdquo; this hiding for 18 years, occupying the country's children find ways to let the old man get the best treatment,doudoune hollister, stable condition, and travel with him relax. Today, the old man survived the storm, their children deeply comforting occasion, could not help but say, & ldquo; father, hide your secret for 18 years, wanted to pour out from the heart. & Rdquo;
Recently, the Modern Express reporter interviewed the eldest daughter of the old man working in Shanghai, she tells the 18-year-old father of a family of anti-cancer story telling. However, for cancer patients how to conceal the truth, OK Experts divergence, many people believe that the informed patient is more conducive to treatment and rehabilitation, but the key depends on the patient's psychological qualities.
□ Modern Express reporter Zhao Shoucheng
18 years ago
Father had cancer
Five children and mother & ldquo; conspiracy & rdquo; hide
Before the cancer was diagnosed, Joe has been living in the northern city Hang happy life, simple and virtuous wife, the couple do a little business from dawn to dusk, the five children pulled adult, married. Although the days of bitter point,d&g lunette de soleil, but a person talking and laughing, and live in harmony, and Joe feel contented.
In summer 1994, Joe often feel abdominal aches, thought it was stomach problems, not mend taking medication. Daughter do not worry, take him to the hospital for tests. After the report card came out, the eldest daughter of a shocked look: advanced colon cancer. Worried father all of a sudden can not accept, the eldest daughter quietly with his family to discuss,woolrich sito ufficiale, & ldquo; The doctor said the patient to positive and optimistic, with treatment. It 's not to tell his father, in case back ideological baggage, no confidence, the condition will worsen quickly. & Rdquo; 5 children and mother decided, without telling Joe, make the best medical treatment.
They lie in good faith to his father, & ldquo; Dad,spaccio woolrich bologna, you're just a little longer stomach tumor, need to move minor cut away, all right, the doctor said that soon will be fine. & Rdquo; their children through the relationship, the father arranged for hospitalization,cappelli last kings, medical director and surgeon looking.
When hospitalized, bed hanging card, written in English, the prevalence of CA's name. Joe gently and slowly read the card, suddenly pointed CA letters Q: & ldquo; what this letter is foreign & Rdquo; daughter unprepared, almost blurted out. Daughter shrewdly first answered a God, immediately stepped on their feet firmly at the young girl, young girl because doctors fear that she spilled the beans. Several children in unison: nothing, which is in English, is the meaning of the tumor. In fact, CA is the abbreviation malignant disease. Joe only read a few years primary school children who were hiding in the past, in the dark.
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18 years
Treatment, tourism outing
White lies continues today
After the surgery the next day, after Joe woke up, the children told him that the tumor is benign or malignant pathology report came out to wait to know. Subsequently, when the result still proved to be malignant, the children have long been mental preparation, they took the report card, with a firm tone, lied together, are benign. Symbols report card on a do not know Joe.
After the surgery, Joe hospitalized more than 40 days, children from around the country who come back,jogging hollister, waiting day and night shifts take turns in bed. Every injections,moncler outlet, chemotherapy,cappelli polo, they fabricate lies,cappelli nba, & ldquo; this is to make your blood kill bacteria, not the president after the. & Rdquo; medical school daughter special dedication, sometimes the father took out her textbook, pointing to the human anatomy diagram above ask, & ldquo; how to treat such a long time is not good, what is the disease & Rdquo;
Dad wanted to worry about the cancer, the youngest daughter quickly change the subject, understatement to say, & ldquo; Dad, you are older, surgery most hurt the body, recovered slowly, to convalesce. & Rdquo;
Sometimes, Joe will doubt the heart, one day, Joe with a patients ward died, he heard that a cancer patient, he is also suspected of the disease, the eldest daughter deliberately said,jordan basket, & ldquo; death is indeed a cancer patient , also lived in the next several cancers, the hospital beds are too tight, we find the relationship, temporarily placed in a cancer ward you, your disease is not the same with them, will soon be discharged. & Rdquo;
On the one hand leak to conceal the truth, on the other hand, a person attentive care of Joe, to protect him put me to sleep good fun to eat, keeping carefree mood. To let him relax, children who develop travel routes, accompanied by a small son throughout, to Beijing, Xi'an, Chengdu, the Three Gorges, Shanghai tours,cappelli obey, Joe just in the first leg of Beijing play a few days, see a lot a lot of Banknotes spend, thrifty life, he used to quit,dior bracciali, & ldquo; travel too waste of money, or keep this money, we go home. & Rdquo; he pulled hard youngest son straight to Chengdu, the second son in Chengdu, he went to see grandchildren.
Stick to the alliance family developed after 18 years, his father's condition gradually improved up.
18 years later
See 76-year-old father in high spirits, smiling all day, still I do not know that they are a cancer patient, the eldest daughter deeply entangled, November 25 at midnight, she could not help Xicihutong post, & ldquo; father, Forgive baby to conceal it. & Rdquo;
Daughter Tucao said, & ldquo; father, know that you are now a regular day (ground) daily life, still with the same young man, constantly bustling about, getting better and better physical condition, her daughter heartfelt (ground) pleased ʱ To your health today, there is a secret, hiding your daughter for 18 years, ah, and will continue to Man Xiaqu. & Rdquo;
& Ldquo; 18 years of day and night, although we deeply (to) bury it in my heart, but Flanagan sensitive nerve, often accompanied by discomfort in your body slightly volatile, over and over again urge you to back to the hospital, there are your sons and daughters telling your selectmen. & Rdquo;
& Ldquo; when your children 93 years of studies all successful, it should be when you are most proud of, but found out that you had cancer at the time, we feel that the sky is falling & hellip; & hellip; when someone says to tell you the truth,magasin louboutin paris pas cher, The doctor would be best not to let the patient know, all of us began to stick to the Alliance & hellip; & hellip; & rdquo;
& Ldquo; to make you happy to receive chemotherapy, I tried to think of the day has finally had a response, and the whole family together, I tell you: build-up is cut off, afraid of blood,céline lunette de soleil, there are bacteria, if it continues to medication will be better, do not drug can also. Because there is an acquaintance for help, the doctor prescribed some medicine to take care of more, it is good medicine. I try to put it easy, to put it lightly. Do we not know that we spread the big lie. When you see the pain of chemotherapy, I seem Oath as uncomfortable. & Rdquo;
& Ldquo; father, today I put to you the secrets of hide for 18 years, fell out of the heart again. Forgive baby to conceal it. & Rdquo;
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Yesterday, the Modern Express reporter linked to the eldest daughter of Joe working in Shanghai, recalling the years to father a doctor treating rough experience, her feelings, & ldquo; Although his father physical rehabilitation, but also to continue to conceal it. & Rdquo;
Experts say
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This should not conceal the truth
Depends on the psychological quality of patients
The quote online bask in the West Temple,sito ufficiale moncler, caused a big stir, 73 users thread, said he was impressed and agreed with the white lies, considered the father of their children filial piety to help ride out the storm. Some friends say, look cried. Some patients are scared of their own, they still do not know as well. One user said he had the same experience, & ldquo; his father once told a white lie. Unfortunately, his father died two years later of cancer, has more than a year. & Rdquo;
But some experts believe that cancer patients may not be beneficial in the treatment conceal the truth. President of the Friends of the Nanjing Cancer Cancer Society CEREALS said the association currently has more than 9100 members of cancer, we have explored this topic, most people think, should let cancer patients know their condition, only know what ails order cooperate with medical treatment. Treatment of cancer is a long process, it is difficult long lie down. After the patient revealed the secret to their psychological fear, as the initiative to tell the truth, at the election of medication more convenient.
CEREALS example, tell the patient the truth, let them participate in the activities of the Association of Friends of cancer, the same boat people together, to exchange experience in the treatment. Anti-Cancer Association in three decades, many have been treated for cancer patients, they can provide examples of successfully treated cancer patients.
Whether or not to tell patients the truth, the key to the psychological quality of patients. CEREALS have contacted both cases, a chemistry teacher at the annual physical examination, detect early cancer, he knew, sighed all day, depressed, locked himself in the house, do not communicate with people. While doctors say belong to the early, the cure is no problem, the results home to three months died.
Another patient from rural areas, but also the stomach, belonging to the late, in Nanjing hospital for stomach surgery. The doctor told the patient, the tumor has been completely get clean, definitely there will be no problem. At the same time quietly told his family, the patient no more than one year survival. After the patient to return home, happy, everywhere tell friends, & ldquo; I move in Nanjing hospital surgery, people, high technology, the whole removed. & Rdquo; patients are very relaxed,woolrich uomo ebay, but also busy every day in the fields, grow vegetables to feed livestock, review the results after a year without any problems.
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