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发表于 2014-10-7 02:45:49 | 只看该作者 回帖奖励 |正序浏览 |阅读模式
■ chief reporter Zhou Li
Five years ago, her daughter suffering from depression. Since then, his father had a diary, a record of every hurdle treat him to accompany her daughter walked the way.
Five years later, her daughter's illness was finally good, when she found his father this diary,hogan 2014, really appreciate what is fatherly.
23-year-old Deng Li Jiao, and dozens have been in patients with depression Geleshan from around the country spent more than a month. Now, she is not the patient, is a counselor. But before she was depressed patients. She is how from a patient, transformed into "teacher" of it?
Save her, the father and a diary.
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Jiao children mood swings, extreme thinking, persuasion not play any role --- excerpt from his father's diary
December 20, 2004 afternoon in Chongqing, Sichuan Yibin Office Office Deng Shimin, received in the third year of middle school daughter outside Sichuan Li Jiao Deng sent the good news --- through layers of selection, she was sent Zhejiang University.
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Deng Shimin night home with her daughter, her daughter said nothing can be, has been crying, arguing reluctant to go to school.
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"I want to change the kind of lifestyle they like, may be beneficial." Deng Li Jiao said that from the beginning, she would understand their problems,woolrich parka, but that is to get out. Six months later, her mood somewhat better.
From the beginning of her illness, Deng Shimin began to keep a diary, write down her condition changes every day:. "Mainly trying to find something from the law, found a method to cure her disease."
August 2005, Deng Li Jiao smooth as Zhejiang University International Economic and Trade majors, allowing the family did not think that this is just the beginning of a nightmare.
Send text messages to his father:
I will end their lives
While I pack clothes set aside flew Zhejiang tickets, contact the school on one side and one side to hold her daughter texting ...... --- excerpt from his father's diary
"After college, she crazy. Santianliangtou attempt at suicide, drop out, hunger, do not speak,http://www.lovehexie.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=131935&fromuid=14297, wisdom toss over." Deng Shimin weekdays busy work, his wife has to work in Yibin, usually, thanks to his daughter by phone care. After retiring in 2007, Deng Shimin employed in Chongqing, a real estate management company to do, the more busy,woolrich, but he still insisted a diary every day.
"I first shopping spree, a few days to spend several thousand dollars. Dad said, as long as I can vent out, spend money on it." Deng Li Jiao himself to Hangzhou hospital checked, by the end of 2005, the first time she knew his illness --- manic depression. Realistic cases, if not heal, most will go to suicide.
Initially, Deng Li Jiao considered the university and the community a lot of unhealthy allow yourself to become pessimistic, she thought, maybe graduate work just fine. But when she contacted some people have to work while suffering from depression, she was devastated, I feel alive is a kind of torture:. "No personal experience,http://www.zhongguoxiangqi.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=191117&fromuid=3451,peuterey 2013, who are unable to understand the kind of painful" period,air max pas cher, she only willing little say a word, who are father.
September 23, 2008, the daughter of Deng Shimin suddenly received a text message: "This life, I do not want too, I would choose their own way to end my life you do not come to me."
Deng Shimin quickly tickets, when he arrived at midnight, Zhejiang University, but want to see his daughter.
That day, Deng Shimin waiting in her bedroom the night. The next day, her daughter reluctantly agreed to talk to him. In the end,http://www.xq0757.com/read.php?tid=283372,air max tn pas cher, Deng Li Jiao with his father back to Chongqing, and went into "reinventing life" counseling center.
Here, Deng Li Jiao accompanied by his father,tn pas cher, to give systemic therapy.
Father's diary, write down his daughter every day from despair to rehabilitation psychology and behavioral changes.
"I read a five-year university,http://xx.miaosky.com/thread-27136-1-1.html, because the meantime take a year, six months on sick leave I do not know how many saw a doctor, how much to eat medicine, by how much pain no matter how I kind of have his father by his side." Deng Li Jiao said, Earlier this year she was sick after a good father just let her know that this diary. "A thick notebook,http://www.ibizstore.com/item/create_form/1,abercrombie, remember the brim can be seen from the diary, five years ago, he almost did not sleep too soundly, did not live a happy day, I always know your pain, but I do not know, in my pain When the father is more painful than I. "
Daughter be saved,
Transition to become counselors
Johnson finally found his own children, recalled that five years of history, really hard ah --- taken from his father's diary
This diary while allowing Deng Li Jiao understand, if not love, one with depression, it was impossible to cure; but she also understands that not all patients have their own so lucky to have such a good father. She decided to change careers six months time, she enrolled in the counseling certificate, she knew that this society, patients with depression is a relatively large crowd.
After graduating from college, Deng Li Jiao gave up a number of high-paying jobs, the initiative went to cure his "reinventing life" Counseling Center, hope to use this platform to help more people. Here she also became only the transition from patient to become a teacher consultant.
Working two months, Deng Li Jiao and colleagues developed a set of systematic and scientific treatment programs, exposing her own pain, psychological counseling number ten patients with depression. Among them, more than a dozen patients has made great progress, met the families of patients, she will take the initiative for them to apply for fee waivers.
And Deng Shimin, also in his spare time actively involved in her daughter's relief operations --- transfers, comfort, and even aid to the patient.
"My daughter is a disease, changing the way we think about life,http://www.108sky.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=2650&do=blog&quickforward=1&id=925868, we have found the best thing to reflect the value of life is to help others." Deng Shimin said he will continue to keep a diary, write down the daughter of a more exciting life.
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