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Xiaoping (a pseudonym) said she was 12 years often do such a dream: a little boy sitting on a big kang, it seems like just get up, wearing wire clothes line pants, grumbles turned his head to ignore her. She inexplicable joy, knowing that this is her son Zhuangzhuang, so happy and asked: "You are so big now?" The boy did not see her, it has not see her.
After the wake, Xiaoping would burst into tears, she said, this is really nice if she wished him to her side, give him a lot of love. This is the secret of her heart, has been buried for 12 years, is also suffering for 12 years. Not long ago, she finally decided to come to Changchun again, this time the goal is to find that she had been abandoned child.
Birth
The child was diagnosed with spina bifida
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Xiaoping 37 years old this year, Inner Mongolia Tongliao City Zhaluteqi people, she said she was very special mood in the city of Changchun, did not come to the time dreaming, came after yet perplexed. The reason for this, all because 12 years ago, she put her children to stay in Changchun.
Xiaoping said that when she married parents have been very opposed lover Li Qiang (a pseudonym) home, especially the poor, still living in grass room, but Li Qiang very capable, people are at ease, she and her family trouble breaking literally marry him. June 21, 2002, she gave birth to a son. Originally the family very happy thing, but a few days later, they found the child something was amiss,louboutin soldes, the first child relatively little short right leg, bent stretched straight, right foot toes inwards, but valgus foot itself, not only So, the bottom of the child's ribs have a big bag, feeling like there is liquid inside. Where doctors when they have not seen this disease, that may be poorly developed bones, viscera did not wrap. Later, they take their children to the Tongliao city's large hospital, confirmed that the child is suffering from spina bifida.
Treatment
"To borrow money, people are afraid to open the door."
"The doctor said the disease surgery requires 200,000 yuan, but they can not give the surgery, because the surgery was too dangerous, under the operating table may not be gone." Xiaoping said, the news for them can be described as a thunderbolt.
During that time, because the child sick, Xiaoping depression, also caused a misunderstanding of her mother, her mother did not like to let her think Xiaoping contact with the child, their family of three angrily out of the house. When we go out, the couple with only 100 dollars, they rented a dollar a day of low houses. The circumstances, to be a mother Xiaoping evidence: "It was their home too poor daughter live very bitter." Children's milk called Zhuangzhuang, is grandfather to take, meaning make him strong. Many people tried to persuade them not to give their children medical treatment, and also includes Zhuangzhuang grandfather.
"We have to borrow money, people are afraid to open the door, we know that our family is the poorest in the village." Xiaoping said, when a dead end, Li Qiang, and her talk, so sooner or later the child died in their hands, as the child away, to the city's major hospitals, maybe there is a chance of survival.
Abandoned
It is difficult to describe the prevailing mood
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At that time, Tongliao to Changchun ticket only 25 yuan. So, around August 20, 2002, holding Zhuangzhuang They came to Changchun, living in a small hotel near the train station. The initial two days, the couple are not sent away around this problem in the tangle. She could not bear, kept holding Zhuangzhuang kiss him, her husband had to say:? "Do you want him to die in our hands."
August 23, or the 24th day, Xiaoping forget the exact date, They finally determined, after holding out Zhuangzhuang husband to let her go back. She finally hold Zhuangzhuang moment, just can not stop the tears. Later, Li Qiang came back and said that he placed the child on an outpatient Changchun Children's Hospital doctors' offices outside the bench. The couple was afraid he might starve, then installed a full bottle of milk, did not leave any note, wrapped the child is a little thin pink and yellow blanket.
In the evening, the two men did not return home, Xiao-ping at the inn cried all night, the next day before returning to the Tongliao.
About the passage of time, the reporter asked her, what did you feel? Originally calm about screeching halt, eyes look red, she spread her mouth twice, failed to sound. So that, after the talk, all weeping, said.
Doubt a
Whether to retrieve his son had previously thought?
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After the child away, the two of them did not tell anyone, someone asked, they did not just say that the child was seriously ill. In 2005, they had another child, a girl. Children cry every time, every nurse, can make Xiaoping abandoned Zhuangzhuang remembered by her during her confinement is still unhappy, milk are insufficient. Later, once her daughter wear too much, hot bad child, daughter suffering from eczema, although so far barely under control through treatment, but still occasionally relapse.
Daughter was born 55 days later, Li Qiang decided to go out to work, he and his fellow went to Beijing. Xiaoping had a sister living in Changchun, she had called her sister for help, please inquire about the whereabouts of the child, sister, friend to the hospital to inquire about, saying only that the hospital has changed dramatically, many people have changed, and no one knows about it. She later also had to ask around Changchun orphanage phone, but do not know the number is not found in the wrong, the phone still does not play through.
2007 to 2009, Xiaoping had come to Changchun to work, she repeatedly passing car Children's Hospital, but did not dare to get off, not even dare to look, she would like to go, but I do not know who to turn to. At that time she learned to play 114 can be found in the orphanage's phone, but she still did not play through.
Question 2
Why now wants to get back his son?
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2010, Li Qiang, filed for divorce, she did not say anything to agree. After the divorce, Xiaoping returned to her family life, his mother once asked to Zhuangzhuang thing, she could not send their children abandoned in Changchun thing to tell his mother. After all these years that his daughter knot, Xiao-ping's mother encouraged her daughter to find out.
For so many years for the first time this secret to tell his mother, also received the mother's encouragement, ranging from a longer Xiaoping. She said that, in addition to a touch because her friends and family from time to time someone will die because of an accident, she was 37 years old, maybe someday out of the accident, she was afraid no one knows about it, Zhuangzhuang's whereabouts, but also no one went to see.
Question 3
If found, like how to do?
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Two weeks ago, Xiaoping came to Changchun, sister inconvenient condition is not good to live, she lives in a small inn. "Watching people coming and going every day, I can not out of the house, and who speak do not know." Xiaoping said he particularly loss. Later, when she thought of her previous work had helped a police, and that police suggested that she found the newspaper.
Reporters asked her whether thought if the child is still, whether to accept her? She said he never thought the child can fully accept her, she thought about the most is the kids will hate her gas she blame her ignore her, and if she do not want to go back to life, and that she would care for him in his near silence . If he could go back and live her life, she had a good guarding two children, nothing exciting life, that she can think of the greatest happiness. If the child did not? She did not dare to think.
Then abandoned the child, and now to come forward, once being held on charges of desertion how to do? She said to have figured out before, the child must find, "sentenced me to sin I recognized, made a mistake, in respect punished."
Children's Hospital: meningocele low infant survival
Yesterday afternoon, the reporter went to the Changchun City Children's Hospital. Outpatient do Weizhu Ren one thing 12 years ago to shake his head, he said he came to the hospital, but also a few years, and now outpatient health care has changed a few batches. As for the abandoned baby information, Children's Hospital was only three years ago according to three hospitals filing requirements. Another clinic run by listening to old director said after the year Zhuangzhuang's condition, spina bifida infant survival rate is very low, then even to the children's hospital may not be able to get treatment.
Police: Abandoned by Time Finding no alarm recording
Weizhu Ren recommend reporter went to the police station to see the year's record, because they found an abandoned baby will alarm. Reporters rushed to the Chongqing Road police station, according to Xiao-ping said the abandonment of time, the reporter found, August 15, 2002 - August 31 during the day, no alarm recording abandoned children.
Welfare: There is no 12-year-old courtyard kids
Vice President Zhao Changchun Children's Welfare Institute, said the yard currently no kids around the age of 12. Zhao, vice president, said they are currently only archives all hospitalized children since 2008.
■ close up
Broken families because children
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2010, Li Qiang, filed for divorce. Xiaoping said she felt her husband had an affair seems to be expected, since between them as two children's sake, has almost no topic. Each time, she called Li Qiang, said, "I dreamed that child," he often very upset and asked her: "? Is not no other thing nothing else I hung up," she found mention When the two things he will be very upset, a daughter's illness, is a "kid."
She said she does not hate her ex-husband, no money to treat the child, the pain may be deeper in his heart. Divorce because he found a good woman economic conditions, and later when he came back to see her, say something, then let Xiaoping filled with emotion, he said: "Let the year if the money does not mean to send that child to go. "Xiaoping initially thought that he was unwilling to mention children, but after the divorce, she once accidentally saw a bag he brought with a small handkerchief, her glance, it is then tied neck Zhuangzhuang water interface. She said, knowing this, her heart did not complain.
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Newspaper reporter Biji Hong
(Original title: She was abandoned 12 years ago to find the son)
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