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Website Editor Wangwen Lei in Beijing working 28-year-old. Relatives and friends reminders wish to have children, she immediately table determination, "want! We double single couple, he could have two!" The other side relieved smile when asked what you want, the answer is vague up immediately, "a couple of years now." or "within three years of it." Yet they never fulfilled,nike tn pas cher, a talking baby, Wangwen Lei always first afterwards: the house is not enough to live, nanny too expensive, more expensive nursery ......
This is not Wangwen Lei a person's concerns. A controversial point is that young people are "house slaves" plus "car slaves", if birth of a child, put a heavy economic burden, it would be "child slaves", "life living in slave society." It was posted on the Internet more high-profile claims that he was "poor second generation", do not want to regenerate a "poor three generations", attracted more than three hundred thousand times to read, reply to four thousand people, many of them in favor of the sound.
In the "young people" in the eyes of 30 years ago, is now this young man is ridiculous arguments: a monthly salary of a few thousand dollars, but too poor not to have children, to sacrifice their grandchildren? For Wangwen Lei's parents, the longer a difficult era over, the cost of a baby is more pairs of chopsticks. Even 10 years ago, more conservative social values, the "DINK couples" is also seen as a personal choice, will not lead to such a heated discussion.
Now, more and more young people before having children, actually starting to consider cost. But "money" is not the only issue they discussed.
"Poor second generation" do not want to give birth to a "poor three generations."
Cantilever Cigu, Kongrongrangli, Cao Chong said the elephant. These Wangwen Lei generation "80" little familiar childhood idol, if placed in this era, a new label will be immediately: poor second generation, wealthy people, the official second. People of wealth and status of "hereditary" phenomenon is so sensitive that affected the imagination of the future - the "poor second generation" should give birth to a "poor three generations."
July 30, self-named "afterlife do not marry poor men," the netizen also posted on the horizon: "We have had" three generations of the poor "and" poor second generation ",http://events.ucr.edu/cgi-bin/display.cgi, you worthy of your children?"
This is not "her" first made such a post, had some remarks triggered talk more numerous. It is said that she and her husband are "because of love and integration" of university students, a monthly salary of 2,500 yuan husband and job insecurity,lancel soldes, we need to do nearly 20 years of "house slaves", so she believes that a child is a child's irresponsible . "Rather than let my child born to lose at the starting line, I'd rather let him come to this world. We have a 'poor second generation', the children become 'poor three generations' possibilities in more than 95% absolute. "
Essay with "I do not want to give her husband a monthly salary of 2,500 poor children, I'm wrong?" As the title of the post, on the concept of traditional Chinese values ??and fertility almost provocative. However, verbal abuse, ridicule and anger, and actually many of them support the sound. Even until two months after posting, but almost every day people replies.
July 31, it was quite seriously in favor and said: "When a child does not have sufficient capacity to provide the necessary material, do not be ...... (children) can not Hexibeifeng grew up."
July 28 was also the thread said: I am a man, now no house no car no deposit, and I are so many students, it has a single, rather than worry about now after marriage, it is better to find the money.
There are post said, "Our primary task is to survive. Conceive means I have to lose work now, her husband's income is barely enough to pay a mortgage, I can not drink the northwest wind to conceive right? Child was born, I because there is no effort to bring the child, now do not work overtime has been very small. "
"Poor second situation, the state can survive ant sort of understanding or two." Signature "Stone trillion," the commentary said,http://www.operabase.com/listart.cgi, "poor second generation" is a life can go on, but live quite painful thing. Wage income has also ran soaring prices do not win; they are with their parents two generations of people have been kidnapped real estate, not only to pay all their savings, but also to back years of debt in order to have the shelter of their own; the future is not determined, each months' earnings reckoning to pay,hollister france, but once the current work, the savings are even buffer might not.
"When you understand this survival of the state, would not blame why some extreme poor second generation does not want children." He said,sac chanel, "This is a question whether hope. If a person believes that he is the poor second generation, born Under three generations of children will be poor, their own lack of hard work, but a lifetime, or even a child can not escape this fate, of course, is a bit pessimistic,http://www.axiabridge.com/sunbbs/sunbbs.cgi, but who can say that this is not part of the social reality? "
How much money am a child
Wangwen Lei do not want to have children. She and her husband good long talk, after small children called "Peas." See aunt's grandson as coddled and become irritable, they decided to "let the old man after Chongni Peas"; after that two well-known universities in Haidian District, they also decided to "let the Peas after learning of engineering." Someone asked why the young couple came to Beijing,hollister, they said, not without pride: a need to develop three generations of nobility, culture we want Peas son into nobility.
"Aristocracy" dilemma to be faced: one, now they located in Beijing rings outside of a one bedroom still repayment, the surrounding millions of yuan from second-hand housing, but where's the money to purchase real estate, let the children, husband and wife, nanny live? Second, if we can, "dwelling", frequented by hundreds if more than ten kilometers away from the hospital, do not buy a car is really inconvenient, car money come from? Third,abercrombie pas cher, even if the transport, accommodation can improvise to the current family income less than two million, bear children milk powder, diapers, early education, childcare, school ...... "suffer either money or the children suffer."
Whenever Wangwen Lei on the phone to the home of the parents said the cause of the "economic difficulties" and delayed parenting plan, it is often difficult to understand. But parents to big cities to live for some time, less the complaint.
This huge city has all the charm of a modern, bright, spectacular beauty replaced the once relaxed, homely marketplace atmosphere, the people who led at exorbitant prices, increasingly moved to the urban fringe. Housing, transportation and living costs continue to rise, so a few thousand dollars monthly in this environment Dayton was meager.
had envisaged, the children stay in the lower house prices, transportation and other second-tier cities the cost of living home, so that parents care. After listening to her husband shook his head: "not a few times a year to see, what is a child's sense of fun and we are all the way to Beijing, finally have Beijing hukou, why children can not enjoy the big city resources?? "
In an ideal world, more and more like  such highly educated young people into the cities struggle should become quasi-middle class, build families have children, build a stable "pit-shaped social structure." And now, these middle-income earners actual spending power in decline, not only "pit" in the foreseeable future, for too long, the couple hearts "Beanie" phantom have become blurred.
Horizon Research Consultancy Group, a "Chinese urban and rural residents reproductive expectations" in April this year found that, although the vast majority of young people have a birth plan, but also their economic base and housing is valued fertility premise. The average monthly income of the couple how dare have children? In Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou and other cities, respondents psychological bottom line is 8078 yuan; Wuhan, Harbin, Taiyuan, Xi'an and Kunming,mulberry outlet, capital city of respondents psychological bottom line is 5169 yuan; county area is 4454 yuan.
"Fertility desire and fertility behavior inevitably constrained by practical factors. No family planning reproductive age of respondents, significantly later than expected, the best child-bearing age,http://www.moviequote.net/moviequote.cgi, 27.4 years of age, about 2.1 years later." Horizon Research Consultancy Group analyst Jiangjian Jian said the situation in the city is obvious.
Resources less inclined
Although people understand that as long as there was a place sanliujiudeng, hereditary and inheritance is not completely avoided. But with different fathers, today's young people born undergoing a process of unprecedented wealth distribution, seeing the end of this process is further solidified the pattern of wealth and social structure, "lower" and began to worry that upward mobility channels narrowing.
Education as a relatively fair upward mobility, can change the fate of a generation path,air jordan pas cher, become very crowded.
Director of the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences Research Center of Family Anqi has published research that the average cost of family in the 0-16-year-olds who spend will reach about 250,000 yuan to 490,000 yuan 30 years of age is required. The most impressive part is the expenditure on education. However, Wangwen Lei observation seems even more investment in education.
Children not yet born, folic acid (supposedly anti-distortion) and radiation suits on the essential. Wang Xu Xuehuai students more than two months pregnant, wearing coveralls radiation suits, more than 1000 yuan. For intellectual development of children, the prospective mother is also popular eating DHA,http://cutyayu.sakura.ne.jp/cabbs/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=110&, a day, to a six yuan, throughout pregnancy 280 days, the cost is not small. Wang went to visit a child after a few girlfriends summed up, "visit mothers, they give money, because that is what they need."
"Into kindergarten is a must, right? But this is hard." Wangwen Lei around young parents say public kindergarten crush, thousands monthly fee private garden, she is worth a month's wages, and even on the outskirts of affordable room area, this preschool is also a 70% price increase. And the children of primary, secondary parents often send their children to discuss is what cram school. Parents of a pupil said, "Every summer the consumption of at least 10,000 yuan."
"Although some investment and unnecessary, but as the cost of investment in education is almost every parent's choice." Anqi told reporters, parents hope their children are often placed, because of fierce competition and social anxiety,moncler outlet, high investment in education is Parents dare not ignore.
Moreover, the front end into the education chain had seemed so easy.
Wangwen Lei Qiu Jing cousin living in capital cities, annual household income of more than 300,000 yuan, but warned Wang "raising children a lot of money": In order to retain a responsible babysitter, but also to let the children do not know what to do because of frequent replacement nanny while she and childcare nanny signed a 10-year labor agreement, and promised, and now 3300 yuan per month, after the annual wage increase by 10%, in addition to more than 4000 yuan a year back to buy a commercial insurance.
The money is to heal the crisis of confidence between the two sides: there was not responsible for the nanny, while parents are not using corporal punishment, etc. Disciplining children,http://www.hiruru.net, so there is no ability to express kids saw nanny on fear, "obey"; and for the nanny, the confusion in the market, "runs one or two years, have no protection," the employment model, indeed, "It's hard not to quit."
Qiu Jing did not dare tell their parents spending money, "they do not understand, in order to give children a safe environment without anxiety, I would like to pay."
Qiu Jing was born in 1974, when her mother was born only 56 days maternity leave have to go off to work, but it was to meet the "safe, not coddled, no anxiety,air max," low cost environment - Qiu Jing subsidiary is to be placed in the unit nurseries, by the unit staff nurse care of relatives when growing up.
Now,tn pas cher, when the formation of the planned economy to the unit, the collective kindergartens, nurseries almost no practice, logistics socialization reform service enterprises them to the society. In the preparation of background compression, childcare institutions also became a breakthrough in the reform of the personnel system throughout the preparation is a lot of compression, from original units once they are stripped out, have been off, stop,http://www.british1.co.uk/cgi-bin/search.cgi, and, turn.
Qiu Jing high cost paid for his daughter, was to address this last generation who never faced social problems.
Since the Chinese pre-school responsibilities are not clear, the funds are not guaranteed, early childhood education funding accounts for about 1.3% of the overall expenditure on education, while Brazil is 5.1%, Thailand 16.4%, the developed countries are generally more than 3%. During 2009 the two sessions, the ACWF also make recommendations on strengthening the cause of public service functions nurseries.
However,http://www.acoh-re.jp/post_mail/postmail.cgi, compared to the lack of resources, leaving many parents depressed, allocation of resources is uneven. Recently visited the capital of a media public kindergarten in Beijing, found to enjoy these sites off,hollister france, complete educational resources, more than a "batch sliver" into the official children.
"In the West, pre-school education is often seen as an important part of the remedial vulnerable offspring. Some of the children born bad, the state capital and by tilting the project, so that these children receive a good education. Those powerful and wealthy, you can choose to let Children go to elite schools, will not take up too much public resources. "renowned child education experts, Beijing Normal University professor Zhang Yan expressed, in China, just the opposite. Entitled, allowing children into the best public park; wealthy, aristocratic to enter the best private garden; money is not right, then park on the cheap, or black kindergarten.
In 2009, the famous sociologist Sun Liping of Tsinghua University has said, "We often hear that kind of talk in everyday life: sometimes bigger gap between rich and poor also does not matter, fear of upward mobility for the poor lose hope, fear is a desperate feeling. "(text Wangwen Lei, Qiu Jing is a pseudonym)