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October 12 Japan is one small Xu Xian and small Chenda Xi day, seeing the wedding is approaching, but they are not happy. The reason is October 1 small promise prospective groom's grandmother died a sudden stroke, his family said, according to the custom of the funeral home with the family allowed to do weddings a year, which can worry about bad love has two new decade.
Elder's death
Family has requested to postpone the wedding couples
27-year-old and 26-year-old Chen Xu high school classmates. They fall in love from the beginning has gone through 10 years, will be able to watch the fruition of a small promise filled with emotion, "our high school together, and later went to study in a different country, then returning to work in different places. All people are not optimistic about the feelings of the two of us, but we still break through all opposition persevered, seeing the can into the marriage hall. Who would have thought such a thing in my house yet happened. "
Little Xu said that October 1 sudden stroke grandmother passed away the next day, his family and his girlfriend's family to quickly sit together to discuss their marriage the supposed. Small Xu's family agreed that,http://www.zaobbs.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=61480,giubbotto woolrich, in order to express respect and cherish the memory of the elderly,air jordan soldes,http://www.kaz32.com/cgi-bin/nextbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=459&page=2, the wedding should be postponed. And Chen's family, although reluctant, but said little promise can understand the mood of his family.
Yesterday,scarpe hogan outlet, a small Xu said the father, "the family has the old man died,hogan outlet, according to the custom of the year can not do within the wedding, or a lack of respect for the elderly,piumini peuterey outlet, but also bad for the couple."
After listening to the words of his father, a small Xu and Chen into anxiety among parents that they can understand the meaning of family elders died not long after the wedding is clearly inappropriate to do immediately; but they have set a good wedding at the hotel,http://my.5754.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, wedding, makeup, with the film also paid for, and even a honeymoon travel agency the money to pay. The most terrible is that the invitation was sent out a month ago, and now canceled the wedding, do not say very heavy economic losses, the people can not accept emotionally.
Between customs and reality,nike tn pas cher, a bit dazed couple. "To be honest,http://www.starchadhesives.com/blog/?module=bdkfiw9x, I do not know how to do." Chen said that now a wedding in the end people still discuss it should not do.
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Do not meet the funeral for the wedding to say, the people who have different opinions. China Chinese Commercial News reporters Zuo Ri and Xun Wenle 20 people, only eight said there is a genuine argument, seven said it seems heard five clear that heard of the practice.
Yesterday,http://www.headhigh.net/forum/viewtopic.php?pid=940737#p940737, the 25-year-old man in northern Shaanxi Miss Fang said that in northern Shaanxi does have this custom, "one of my friends get married before my grandfather died, it was forced to cancel the wedding,peuterey, back to the hotel, one by one to tell friends and family, the loss is very heavy, but they are very traditional that white thing at home within a year is determined not put wedding If forced marriage,chaussures louboutin soldes, the couple is not good for both. "
32-year-old Ms. Ray said she heard that version is that "if there is death in the family, the couple married in a month to catch up after the death of his family."
During the interview, the China Daily reporter found the idea of ??middle-aged and young people are different. Many elderly believe that if you encounter family elders died, the couple is still best not to get married. 55-year-old Yang is that if there is this argument really older,nike tn, it certainly makes sense that young people should follow.
And many young people felt this idea itself is very old-fashioned, it is time to get rid of stereotypes, and small pieces of 24-year-old was a student studying in the UK,woolrich outlet roma, he said, "because the old saying the wedding was canceled, so the words are scaled Some funny? miss their loved ones should be placed on the heart, others are doing for others to see, not too much emphasis on these surfaces thing. "
Folklore experts
Abandon the old customs is married to comfort the dead
So folk in the end if there is such a statement? Encountered such a situation, the prospective new people in the end how should I do?
Yesterday, China Chinese Commercial News reporters Jiu Ci and Zi Xunliao Shaanxi Normal folklore expert Fu Gongzhen. He said old customs do have this argument, but with the development of society, these old customs should be abandoned out.
"Folk have weddings and funerals to this argument,nike pas cher france,http://ohh.sisos.co.jp/cgi-bin/openhh/jsearch.cgi, then the white matter is also a happy event,http://www.xuelianai.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=1688, this time can be considered if the child is able to marry your joy if two people psychologically go through, you can think, let two children married is for the elderly A consolation, comfort the deceased elderly. " said.
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(Original title: When the wedding met the funeral do not worry about bad wedding couples)