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发表于 2015-4-23 01:03:03 | 只看该作者 回帖奖励 |正序浏览 |阅读模式
As the saying goes, "advised advised not close off," but two days ago, 28-year-old Zhang Lin (a pseudonym) was a lawyer advised her parents divorced - parents Gesanchawu fight, as long as a noisy, either their own or a meeting to talk about business, They always take a phone call a cry, "by their parents too want to resign switched telephone harassment," Zhang Lin stand it, simply hired a lawyer dealing with family.
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In this regard, arguing a lifetime of parents but can not stand, cursed daughter "filial piety!" "White Wolf!"
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Advise parents divorce lawyer
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Daughter was scolded, "White Wolf"
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Zhang Lin, who lives in the South Bank area Nanping Road, No. 68, 4-1,http://rammazyfamily.com/gallery/displayimage.php?pid=161, two years ago, went to Chengdu an advertising company. On Friday, she suddenly received a phone Nan'an District, dragon-riding community: "Your mother to community complaints you say you are White Wolf ......"
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Staff then let Zhang Lin confused: Since their job, gave parents a month and paid several hundred dollars for living expenses,http://www.haut56.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=214025, festive and parents will send a birthday gift, but also from their parents no matter beaten happen, why back "filial" infamy?
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Originally, the day early in the morning, Zhang Lin's mother found Liu Nan Liu Lanfen Community Director. Tears, said he has always been proud of her, I do not know why changed, not only do not want to listen to his talk, or even a few days ago to find a lawyer to mobilize themselves and their husbands to divorce: last Thursday, because a little small, had a falling out with her husband After the mouth, her husband stormed away, himself grew more frustrated, wanted to give her a call to talk to talk to, but consecutive five phones have been cut off. Later, the phone finally connected, then just say half, my daughter impatiently interrupted, saying, "You are so noisy every day, just do not go over the divorce,scarpe nike air max, do not understand what I am looking for people to help!"
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Daughter,scarpe hogan, then Liu Lanfen did not mind, but that night, a lawyer named Wang Gang scored home phone, said her daughter by the commission, to help them to divorce, which makes Liu Lanfen and her husband is not too happy. To find community complaints, "How can so that when her daughter? You educate her education."
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Parents bear the phone crying
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Several times to resign switched telephone
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"I have a stomach grievances Zhengchou no place down,http://kforum.erufa.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=267991, they first complaint to me?" Clear himself "filial" reasons after Zhang Lin also played down the staff grievances.
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Zhang Lin said he has notes from parents had been arguing all night. Child,http://237.newfine.net/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, they quarreled not give myself, but a fit of anger in their own little attention will somehow endure as long as Dayton curse became a punching bag; Growing up, my mother slowly started to like to talk to myself, as long as a quarrel took his grievances to tell.
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Initially, Zhang Lin feel sorry for the mother, will try to reconcile in the middle,louis vuitton borse, persuasion. But such a reconciliation is not the slightest effect, with age, not only did not converge parents fighting, but the more noise the more fierce,mulberry outlet, large deposit processing, small dish salty tea light. Two years ago, Zhang unbearable Linsuo of Chongqing left home and went to work in Chengdu. Unexpectedly,http://ladygz.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=610040, she did not let the distance of space from harassment. Every quarreled, the mother is still the first time to give her a text message or phone crying. Affected by the mother, the father also became love to tell her grievance. Zhang parents struggling to cope with daily phone, cell phone could not get through, but also to call units, most of the day, the two men actually received 13 calls, "the work is affected, and want to quit many times to change the phone."
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Only vent to his daughter cry
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Noisy quarrel did not really want to go for divorce
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Zhang told reporters, who do not want their parents loving family harmony, but parents noisy all day, indeed affect their normal work and life, divorce lawyer advised them, is quite upset.
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Yesterday, for the first time heard the voice of her daughter,http://www.kansaikai.jp/bbs/light.cgi?res=84715, Liu Lanfen couples some guilt: "Every time we quarreled only their grievances, looking for someone to talk to, but did not take into account the feelings of wanderers ......"  said she and Indeed husband often quarreled, it may have been 35 years of marriage they can not change the habit,http://bbs.vlover.net/thread-1053245-1-1.html, but two people go noisy noisy, it did not really think too old to still "playing out."
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Parents fighting the supposed child
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Reporters random survey found that many people have encountered parents fighting to their cry troubles. How to deal with parents fighting on this issue, 50 readers participated in the survey, 36% of children said that "parents quarrel, I will go mediation, but the results are poor"; another 36% of the children crying because their parents fight and uncomfortable; There are 12% of children think their parents quarrel is better to divorce; 16% of the children to their parents feel powerless quarrel, choose to avoid.
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Parents mediate conflicts "creative tricks."
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1, buy two movie tickets, gave them no matter go or not, mind and thought they knew, too embarrassed to go downtown in front of their children.
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2, to find some reason, such as holidays, birthdays, wedding anniversaries and so on, to coax them to go along with intimate restaurant for dinner, under such a scenario they can not afford to be angry students.
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3, to bring them,http://zkend.net/forums/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2462432, family travel, family atmosphere under thick, so the contradiction will vanish without trace.
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4, quietly buy my mother likes to eat, saying that my father bought; quietly buy things like father, said to her mother bought. & Nbsp; & nbsp;
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Intern reporter Zhang leaf Kong Xiuying
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□ I have something to say
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Advised together also advised from
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Chongqing Concord, director of counseling, chief consultant Tan Gangqiang: "Encouraging advised not close off" argument has become obsolete, previous perception, do not think of divorce, a lifetime to go on is a successful marriage. Modern people more aware of their feelings, marriage, divorce does not mean success, the key is whether the marriage of two people happy, psychological counseling in the event of marital problems, psychological experts will be under the circumstances, advised together also advised to leave, so Children advised parents divorced understandable.
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Do children as mouthpieces
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Liu Nan, director of the South Bank area riding a dragon community: parents talk to their children this contradiction is true, but does not grasp the scale, the number of calls a day, affecting the normal operation of the child is not right. As a parent, you should make a good example to the children, there are more than their own communication to solve problems, not to the children as a mouthpiece and a punching bag.
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Think about this for parents and children
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Friends, "This is not a vest": parents quarrel, I grew up seeing big persuade useless, often persuade them to divorce, perhaps from the better, and sometimes feel that they are filial. But I did not experience people really do not understand, this is really a family environment sometimes people crash, now own are affected, suffering from a phobia of marriage, parents want to be able to give more consideration to the child's feelings.
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Parents of small children to old also inclusive
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Netizen "Agassi": after all, their parents, not the way to escape. Parents cry every day, certainly not, but think they raise their own for so many years, it is tolerant about it, to be a sensible children are good, they talk to you, you can also try to listen to a friend's attitude. From another angle, they just want to talk, vent to vent,nike tn requin, not what you want to do.
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