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To "city people" dream, Tian Pei learning initiative tried more than once, "like the city, like life":
He had enrolled in music courses, want to be like everyone else in town literate;
He spent more than a month's wages to live in a five-star hotel, the city people want to know is how life ......
Town? Dream
"I hope to be a respected person in town."
"Like me out in rural areas, the dream is a home in Chengdu, the big city, even if only a small house, a small bed, I have satisfied."
23 years ago, the field training school came home from Jianyang Chengdu. His town's reason is simple: eat the meat in town.
1989, 18-year-old Tin Pei along with fellow school together and embark on cars entering the city from the countryside Jianyang Shi home town. The previous year's Spring Festival, a journeyman of a restaurant in Chengdu, people in the village back to the field training to learn the benefits described in this bustling metropolis: "city people can eat meat every day, eat drained vegetables, than We sumptuous meal to eat well. "
Tin Pei scientists five brothers and sisters, family difficulties, "noodles are very rare, not to mention meat, once a month to taste pretty good." Journeyman restaurant on field training, then it is very tempting to learn, after the Spring Festival, He and several fellow migrant workers to set foot on the road.
Under the help of the villagers, Tin Pei learn in a plastics factory to find a first job. He soon discovered the charm of the city: skyscrapers, cars dealings Mercedes-Benz, will be able to earn more than a month in rural areas earn dry months, although did not like people in the village said that "Dun Dun eat meat "But in rural areas than eat good times ...... Tin Pei learn more than determination, we must go on living in the city. "Like me out in rural areas, the dream is a home in Chengdu, the big city, even if only a small house, a small bed, I have satisfied."
In order to realize the dream city, Tian Pei began to learn to work hard. He often work into the wee hours in a plastic factory. Once, tired, he forgot to shut down, high temperature plastic puffing agent sprayed in the face, his right cheek almost half disfigured.
Plastic Factory done about a year, he switched to the food industry, to help a relative of the owner to make sugar cakes, biscuits. 7 years, he worked hard, and hope that their hard work and ability to win with respect, to be respected and respectable body of city people. Therefore, even if the machine right index finger was cut off a length, middle finger and ring finger has also been Jiaoduan too, even three years ago did not receive a penny of wages, he felt it was necessary to pay.
Town? Hard
"Living five-star hotel just for the experience of urban life."
Tin Pei school more than once tried to "urban life", he had enrolled in music courses, even with a special person stayed one night five-star hotel
Son Tiankang Wei's sudden suicide, let Tin Pei learn "city people" dream completely shattered. Yesterday, the son died eight days later, Tian Pei relatives refused to learn his son buried the ashes back to the recommendations of the rural Jianyang, he rented housing in the area looking for cemetery cemetery, hoping his son buried here. "My son, like me, want to stay in this city."
In food plants for seven years, from humble workshop to develop manufacturers tens of millions of assets, although he was entrusted with the technical director, but his salary is only 695 yuan highest, while the factory into a new college, starting salary is 1500 yuan. On one occasion, he made his own confusion to the food factory owner, got the answer left him even more angry: "The boss said to me, you're the only one end to pull the weight of cattle, but also to take the whip to catch people in the back. "
"The boss look down on us that we do not redneck culture." In the food plant experience discrimination, deeply affected the field training school. As a junior high school for people who only read, he fell into a paradoxical psychological: he worships formal educated people, but stubbornly believe that educated people look down on him. "Coolies" in.
Communication barriers caused by cultural gap, so that the field training to learn to feel difficult to integrate into the city, he was eager to get everyone's approval, but the lack of channels of communication. In fact, the field school training initiative tried more than once, "like the city, like life." He had enrolled in a music course, learning to blow Xiao, hoping to master a look "elegant" skills, in order to narrow the "city people" distance. But the training did not allow him to find a sense of accomplishment, and soon it since he went to the training courses, training courses need to pay 50 yuan a lesson, "I think is too expensive, can not afford."
He even spent a month salary, to live in a five-star hotel, only to want to know, "the city's life is like." Around 2002, Tian Pei-year-old school with his wife and son in a five-star hotel in Chengdu area stayed one night. "Taxi to taxi back, eating dinner, just like everyone else in town." Tian Pei doctrine, this five-star hotel stay plus dinner,piumino moncler, the cost of a taxi, spent nearly 2,000 yuan Tian Pei school, which he was More than a month wages.
Tin Pei learned wife to her husband, tried to integrate the city's behavior had lost confidence. "We are a native of rural people, in the city for so many years, we only want the lifestyle and city people, but in essence never like them. They educated, playing on weekends, there are holidays, they sit in their offices , bubble tea, leisurely life, these are our unthinkable. "
Tin Pei learn stubbornly believe that they can not become the city people, the son will be able to.
Town? Sorry
"My son jumped him 23 years of shattered dreams."
In order to realize the promise to his son buy a car, the last three years, the field training school and his wife desperately overtime money. Results for things outside of school Tian Pei little concern
Training school in the field seems to let his son become a city people, the first to study at university, literate people will not dare to look down, and there should be some material basis.
Trying to earn became his new goal. Because food factory owner was humiliated, Tin Pei learn to leave the plant. He went into a furniture factory, start from scratch and began to overload of work in exchange for substantial revenue every day. A few years, he has bought a set of more than 30 million homes and a shop in the suburbs. House son's name is written. He told his son, "and so three or four years, I'll buy you an Audi."
In order to realize his son buy a car, promised the house, the last three years, Tian Pei and his wife learned hard work overtime to earn money, work nearly 20 hours a day. But good news is, the son entire elementary school grades are very good.
Results for something outside of the field training school are rarely concerned. March of this year, the Picasso exhibition to Chengdu. Son likes to draw, want to see. But Tian Pei learn to see the exhibition considers unimportant. Similarly, this year's auto show exhibition center, the son wanted to go, field training school did not agree. He said his son, show you watched, the car is not yours.
Training school in the field seems to become a decent town son who is a distance between Audi and a university diploma. Audi to buy four years, he was confident; and son entered junior high school learning, then let him not the end: his son did not want to read the key classes, deliberately test last first; recently fell in love with the Internet. Tin Pei school began to worry about his own vision for the future son go awry. When he found his son overnight Internet, he took extraordinary measures to make his son "back on track" with thin wire up --- he severely beat him.
"As long as there is a 2034, I realized dream." Tian Pei doctrine. Unfortunately, the day after the beating, his son jumped from the 18th floor, killed on the spot. Disappeared with his son's life together, is that in 23 years he has been trying, but it is not dream.
Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Hu Ting and Ma Tianshuai
User sigh
Parents want to achieve the dream
He can not shirk
October 18, the Chengdu Business Daily Scoop Tiankang Wei committed suicide a post aroused wide attention and discussion. Netizens have learned to express their views on the training field of education, which have reflection, there are lessons.
@ View Lin Ting Feng: Sometimes love is the actual surface of the violence, who are independent of the individual, we must learn to respect each other, love of parents have to stop, do not become a forced invisible pressure.
@ Owen Long 2012: Poor child, a very young age to shoulder much parents can not achieve their own dreams, and when the violence to end this wonderful ......
@ Jiaoziyoufang - Special Issue: Parents and children appeared disjointed feeling in the world, there is no intersection between each other. The father made a serious mistake: that the money to have it all, but I do not know what children really need. Lack of communication and emotional soul collision between father and son. For example, to accompany the child to kick a football, watching a movie, or even play games with him ...... let the children feel their parents respect him, love him, let him feel the presence of love.