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When the new semester, on the way to school elementary school son drank toxic pesticides. After yesterday morning, that his son also need to convalesce six months of observation,hollister france, the new Tu Yong Xichuan farmers worried. He became even more worried about is already moving up the son of suicidal thoughts, will make stupid again?
◆◆ event 12-year-old son to school road ingesting pesticide
Tu Yong is the new mule Xichuan Tang Xiang Mao Village farmers, March 2 this day, his 12-year-old son riding a motorcycle handlebars painted Xiaoyang Mao Tang Xiang sent straight to school. Let Tu Yong some new worry is that his son has repeatedly said prior to dropping out of school, this time do not know if he will go back.
After watched his son into the school, Tu Yong had been standing at the school gate new, heart meditation son do not come out. But Tu Yong fears new happened.
10 morning, the Tu Xiaoyang alone out of the gate, painted new courage and quickly to meet her, took his son came to the grove nearby, always talk to noon, but his son is still reluctant to go to school, Tu Xin-Yong had to bring him back home.
That afternoon, Tu Xiaoyang did not eat, to about 14:00, sudden vomiting, diarrhea up. Tu Yong hastened to send him to the new Mao Tang Xiang hospitals, and subsequently go Xichuan public hospital treatment, Tu Xiaoyang be as patient with acute gastroenteritis, for a week of treatment, but the child's symptoms is not reduced, but the emergence of acute kidney Failure tendencies.
Tu Yong and new doctors repeated questioning, Tu Xiaoyang finally tell the truth - before the school day, Tu Xiaoyang to play when a neighbor came across spoke of a bottle placed on the window sill, "paraquat" pesticides, he would quietly find an empty plastic bottles, while people do not pay attention poured half a bottle with you.
March 2 opening day on the road, Tu Xiaoyang sitting behind a motorcycle,hollister sale,http://www.usrcyclisme.fr, while his father was not looking, pulled drank pesticide and then throw away the bottle. After school, he went to the classroom just sit for a while, they feel very uncomfortable stomach, it is a man walked out.
After several transfers, coated Xiaoyang in Xichuan public hospital treatment to continue treatment, rescue more than a month, spent a total of more than 25,000 yuan, basically out of danger after the children, on April 9 discharged home eating traditional Chinese medicine.
Xichuan public hospital treatment, a doctor said that "paraquat" is a highly toxic pesticides, herbicides is an adult that is able to more than 30 ml of oral lethal currently no specific antidote. Tu Xiaoyang current recovery is pretty good, but there is still damage the lungs, if you stop the medication, it is possible due to pulmonary necrosis and death, the need for rest six months of observation.
◆◆ root of a long letter 1700 words
A 12-year-olds to drop out why, why had suicidal thoughts? May 10, Tu Yong new home, found his son Tu Xiaoyang wrote a long letter, all of a sudden opened a secret.
A total of three long letters over 1700 words, written on November 16,http://www.postyourasian.com, 2009. Letter from James Xiaoyang can get a glimpse of his reasons for suicide.
New Yong Tu, until September 2009, Tu Xiaoyang Mao Tang Xiang baishuihe school, fifth-grade final exam also test the second. Subsequently, the transfer to straight hair Tang Xiang school,louboutin pas cher, but soon he expressed the idea did not want to go to school. Start,hogan outlet, repeatedly telling his son, parents criticized him; later, Tu Xiaoyang home several times to escape, but they were returned to school time and time again parents. There are times to convince him, parents and even beat him. Tu Yong said the new son once said, "I must go to school to show you're dead," but he did not care.
◆◆ argument Board of Education, said the teacher is a good teacher
Tu Yong said the new, let the children fear to commit suicide teacher, Tang Xiang hair is straight school six (two) classes troupe live Zhu Yongfang.
Tu Yong, said Zhu new math teacher,moncler pas cher, often corporal punishment on students, poor students who are not let Zama step is to tighten the face, or let kneeling on the ground, and often abuse, said allowing parents to send their children to take home forget. More than 70 percent of the students in the class have had varying degrees of corporal punishment.
For this argument, Mao Tang Xiang Rong three straight school principal response is the opposite: "Tu Xiaoyang ingesting pesticide, has nothing to do with the school Zhu Yongfang he never had corporal punishment and other student."
The new Tu Yong told reporters after the child was discharged, he went to school survey of more than a dozen students who have signature proof Zhu teachers often corporal punishment on students. Tu Yong reflect after receiving new, Xichuan County Board of Education also conducted an investigation of the incident, the investigation report and Wang Rong three identical statement: "Students and teachers reflect  was a good teacher,hollister france, never painted Xiaoyang corporal punishment and other students." " a 12-year-old child, no reason why ingesting pesticide? Tu Yong new encounter some frustration on children, he said recently would not send their children to go to school again, he will learn a lesson, take the initiative to seek the views of children, respect his choice .
◆◆ questioning
Parents know their children what they thought it
This incident, Nanyang Municipal Party School Professor Xiao package delivered their views. He said that today's students are mostly child, hopeful parents eager for their children's expectations too high. If the child in learning or behavior, did not meet the goal of parents, they worried,http://www.jabros.com/forums/profile.php?id=4786, ranging scold, while beaten, so give her children a great deal of psychological pressure.
More difficult to accept is that children, parents and children lack equal exchange, some parents are always condescending, blunt words for children to speak, children are very afraid of the parents, never dared to tell the truth to the parents.
If the parents of the child lack confidence, admiration, just to see the shortcomings of the child, the child often with sarcastic words, it will cause a loss of confidence in the children. Some parents even selfish, narrow-minded. They believe that the child is their own private goods, coupled with a bad temper, unquestioning,http://www.auto-tsukamoto.com/hpgen/epad/epad.cgi,hogan outlet, frequently hit, shot heavy, neither children nor outspoken Gannu make children depressed, mental distortion.
Children living in such families, will cause great harm to the child's psychological and pressure, if this pressure over time, how can withstand a very young age children do?
School life education for students yet
Deputy director of Nanyang City Board of Education Bing Hu believes that school children's education as an important implementer, facing such events should cause reflection.
He said the students life education is essential, due to lack of proper understanding of student life, will cause some students and callous disregard for life, which is the phenomenon of suicide primary ideological roots. Strengthen the primary responsibility of education, equally indispensable, this education enables students to understand a person's life,http://bbs.ninghai.org/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=15640, not only with family responsibilities, as well as social responsibility, can not give up.
Suicidal students are often not properly setbacks student frustration education should be strengthened to enable students to clear a person's life can not be plain sailing, will experience many difficulties and failures.
Meanwhile,abercrombie france, according to the current status of education in our country, should accelerate the psychology teacher training. Many schools have no psychological teachers,hogan outlet, although some schools has a counseling room, they are just decoration. Bing Hu said that if parents and school education from deep reflection,abercrombie france, change and strengthen some aspects of education,tiffany outlet, will avoid or reduce such tragedies.
Letter From Tu Xiaoyang
A math teacher to see there is a feeling of fear. The monthly exam, my math exam only 70 points, then the math teacher got angry, then let me Zama step lectures, from then on, I do not want to go to school here ...... On another occasion, the teacher let us back concept, the students will be back, and not only me but also the back, which under the math teacher angry, get me knelt on the ground. I tried to back it back, but I do not know why they would not back ...... outside under a snow goose feather,abercrombie outlet, kneeling on the ground feet almost frozen, I thought insist on living ......
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