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Text / Yangcheng Evening News correspondent correspondent Wen Yan Mei Fung West
Map / Yangcheng Evening News reporter Zhou Wei
April 2 afternoon thunderstorm, day as night. 28-year-old horse (a pseudonym) had just come out a farewell ceremony, his face tired, but still sincere smile. "This is the fourth game today." Dark horse took a deep breath.
If other people do not say, are they not see the front of this young guy is a funeral presided. Dark Horse says goodbye to the Office of the door is his dividing line, open the door when away a smile, stay awake, control of the site; and when that door, all return as closed, except no friends, get married, have children are has been successfully completed.
Some people say, funeral presided over a special type of work, it was said, it takes courage chosen career, but the dark horse said, he was only a "witness", the witness again and again "final farewell."
Cock "into line"
Cock fill the College Entrance Examination, became the watershed dark horse of life.
2005,abercrombie outlet, just enter the Academy of CHANGSHA he does not know "Modern Funeral Technology and Management" what to learn. In this way, all college students,spaccio moncler,fJNXf0ElO5, the dark horse began his college life in longing and apprehension. August 2008, the dark horse returned home from Hunan, Guangzhou,louboutin soldes, Guangzhou has become the center of a funeral presided over the funeral service. It is understood that, at present, Guangzhou Funeral Funeral service center hosted a total of 29 (male 18, female 11), the average age is about 35 years old, is the youngest of a dark horse.
Master started just behind the little apprentice,louboutin femme, whenever the door opened slowly farewell hall,PvFy4hnRu9, he stuck in my throat, "the face of a picture of distraught face,iXGf3yzxug,peuterey outlet milano, had to hide in the lounge next to the wiping tears." Recall Sentimental appearance since that time, the young lad still a bit embarrassed.
Days passed, then the "sidekick" long endeavor, Dark Horse has always maintained a modest, "we are the same, just different lengths of time to come."
These years down the dark horse 4000 hosted several large and small farewell ceremony, he even can not remember since when, he can rationally faced again and again farewell. Now, he admits,outlet moncler, tears have been hidden very deep, sometimes filled with grievances and even pain,moncler piumini, also lost no tears. "In 2011, my grandmother passed away, but I've not cry." Dark horse that perhaps this is career brought him the greatest impact, but did not let him gloomy, not farewell ceremony,aqg6yL9buP,louboutin homme, he was a young man laughing , responsive, speed fast.
The work can not smile
In just one hour, to witness the "final farewell", experience the vicissitudes of this world. This is the dark horse of their own perception of this job, though sometimes misunderstood their families, but he said:. "At least I do,moncler piumini, in many cases can help to others."
"Farewell ceremony mostly grief,knyx0qJHT1, tension, and I must keep clear." Farewell hall whenever the door slowly opened, regardless of how their feelings, we must put away all smiles. However, the death of loved ones, family's feelings easily collapse, even past the contradiction at this point would be easy to intensify, as a host, you need to control the scene as fast, "one admission, I was a guide, a organizer, or psychological counseling staff. "
Dark Horse said, because grief, fatigue and other reasons, most of the families to the site will know what to do when he had to put their families first boot process is complete: admission, discharge portrait, stations, put flowers, confirmed the remains and so on. Speed ??must be gentle and deep, not a hint of neglect. "This is the last of the dead and their families to meet, and last farewell, must be based on the premise of respect for the dead."
And sometimes encounter when families do not calm, the host will be affected. When a farewell ceremony started, the dark horse is ready to guide families to put the portrait, can the 80-year-old man on crutches after seeing the remains of the deceased, actually furious that are not in front of his family. It turned out that the deceased during his lifetime never worn a hat, but actually shroud with a hat, plus family members did not see the remains of a few days, and sometimes did not recognize. Well some explanation, the elderly do not listen, when it is difficult to control emotional crutches actually rushing to the black horse, and he threatened to "singled out", then the horse patiently explained to him, and told him the reason, next to the Staff also discouraging,WhzyInKyq2, finally Quanzhu elderly. Funeral was finally able to continue, when a farewell hall,G9B7Uage9s, the old man's hand holding a black horse, said: "Just that I'm feeling so excited, please forgive me also thank you very much.." Few simple words, after the grievance swept away.
Dark horse,parka woolrich, this is the job he always insisted on doing reasons "At least I do, in many cases can help to others." Think about this, my heart feel happy.
Between father and son "silent"
However,c8U846WVNI, not everyone can understand the heart of a dark horse this pleased. Funeral services were most similar to Dark Horse 80 after almost no friends. "Nobody wants to leave my phone, I was present when the party atmosphere suddenly cold today." Passing touch of sadness in the eyes of young people. Distressed him most is that the father has failed to accept his work.
"In the beginning I just said to work in the civil system inside a unit, until a fellow being met, the parents did not know the nature of my work."
One day in 2011, a fellow dark horse car accident victims, the remains were sent to the Guangzhou Funeral Home. When family members came to confirm the remains, but found led them all the formalities are dark horse. "At the time they had to bite the bullet and help after finishing all the formalities, the next day, the village all know." Perhaps it is because people do not want to let his son become the talk of the village, perhaps because of a taboo, whenever the horse home, father always silent, out of the house for a long time into silence between father and son. Now a little relief, but always awkward.
"Fortunately, the wife can understand me." 28-year-old horse last year when his father, wife, college students, after graduation, he followed up in Guangzhou. Because of the specialty units can not be accepted in many candidates, she had to hold a high school diploma to candidates, in a business made a small staff. Today, due to the care of children, the couple rented a funeral home in nearby small house, life is also decent.
Black horse that looked so many games, "parting",woolrich parka, they have to understand that, life is not long,louboutin, to the most cherished and his family every day, "time to spend too short to make love stay regrets."
(Original title: 80 presided over the funeral: Father has so far failed to accept almost no friends)