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Close of the year, visit the wedding party get together some money, with the gift of money, "RBI" ...... a lot of money,http://www.shenghero.co.jp, the number of human consumption of their own budgets, and again teeth off, tighten their belts.
In recent years, more and more names human consumption, the amount increasing, even with the more put the more extravagant feast. This is the normal exchanges, contact the feelings of many people bothering become not only expensive, but also allow comparisons of the wind vicious cycle.
Rural Aunt nearly a month on the nine ceremony
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Comparisons lavish feast gifts
The reporter Chi Chun-Li
"Uncle son married, the ceremony of 1000 yuan. Neighborhood move,moncler italia, sent 1000 yuan. Today is the twelfth lunar month nine, but also to eat table (Henan Vernacular, eat banquet), also come 1000 yuan." Shortly after the twelfth half, who lives in rural Henan Luoyang Chunling (a pseudonym) has been recorded several T account (see above).
"Years ago the wedding thick (dense), an estimated ten thousand dollars this month also play live." Chunling said, this year I do not know how it happened,louboutin pas cher, the countryside to rise bass bass gifts, weddings and marriage, moving on the beam, children full moon, school recruits, which is also a little down. And numerous rural gifts,chaussures louboutin, married children and grandchildren to give "Tim box fee" to recognize the pro give "changed fee", the minimum is $ 100. Chunling over 70-year-old mother can not "escape", 65 yuan monthly pension is not enough for the ceremony.
Eldest son married last fall, Chunling gift list themselves were startled to see: his family is very general 300 yuan, uncles and brothers to go to 2000 yuan. Finally calculate the total income of the 580 copies of more than 10 million gift, hospitality table 86, has spent more than 50,000.
There are a lot of notice to smear on her gift list, accounting people say that there is a distant relative of the first $ 100 ceremony, then looking through the gift list,moncler sito ufficiale, I feel low, but out of the two tickets on the spot, into 300 yuan. "Five years ago Cheng Si also 100 yuan, 100 yuan less than now not the gift list." Chunling son recently married a relative's house, tell billing people, do not accept less than 100 yuan, to save feast "lose money."
Gifts too, they had to give, give birth to a lot of dumbfounding thing: In order to send a gift "eat" back, someone to scrape together a large family to eat banquet dish just serve, pour on the open plastic bags inside. Just put drinks on stuffed hide beneath the tablecloth.
"I really do not want to receive so much ceremony, but also when they often have to add money." Chunling math, sent out to more than recover.
In rural areas, "salute" is a measure of interpersonal closeness of the most important ruler. Chunling said how much salute mainly depends on three factors: the relationship between family and friends near and far, can not help each other, or require people to do things. Relatives of a child before the full moon, spend five dollars to tear cloth four feet, the children can grow up with; the house beams, relatives and steamed buns mention a cage over, artisans eat good work. But now almost all "cash", and I felt a change of taste.
"It's all been stained with gas child officer who trouble." Chunling said she first knew gifts can be as high $ 2000, is on a township cadres son's wedding. Here was someone to spend time with proactive notification of township enterprises, "as assessed as a wedding car fleet Minato, had a gift line. This led transferred, and turn your home son married people have the nerve to inform the leadership? It is to give away! "
Small businessmen sun bill a year gifts
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This year earned 100,hogan interactive,000 favors spend half
The reporter Pan Junqiang
Li, 26,piumini moncler, returned home after graduating from college - a small town in Shandong Province, opened a machine parts factory. After three years of efforts, a small factory output value last year reached 200 million, the cost of interest on bank loans and removing Li earn 100,000 yuan this year.
Years of hard work, so that, Mike understands the importance of human relationships. This year, Mike early as well as customers prepare for the next New Year's, but also to the industrial and commercial tax departments of leaders prepared a huge gift. He bought nearly 6,000 yuan shopping cards, 4,000 yuan wine, fish, 5,000 yuan, 1,000 yuan of smoke,woolrich parka,http://nogata-sanya.com/bbs/joyful.cgi, as well as peanut oil, firewood eggs, milk about 2000 yuan.
. "These sectors untouchables, contact is required to contact the feelings," Li told reporters, if it is more familiar, qualify as friends,louboutin soldes, send tobacco and fish eggs, firewood,giubbotti woolrich, visit a person spends about three or four hundred dollars; If you are not familiar with the person or the leadership, in addition to tobacco and fish feed, should also send gift cards, denominations ranging from 500 yuan to 5,000 yuan. Over a year, he was a light to the leadership and customer gifts would cost nearly two million.
New Year inevitably visits, Mike also leave some money to the leadership of the children. Relationship important point is generally 400 yuan to 600 yuan; general, to three hundred dollars. Mike figured, this need to leave some money for at least seven or eight.
"Relations in order, to do the job." Li said, not only is the end of gifts, when they get over the Mid-Autumn Festival, usually have to spend money to RBI, Gesanchawu have to ask the department heads and the customers eating and drinking, they have to eat and drink more than 10,000 yuan a year.
Human cost more than that. Li said, classmates and friends are now around the age of marriage, with the "see hi money" good relations point 600 yuan to 800 yuan, the relationship is generally 400 or 500 yuan, over the past year he reached the light this item of expenditure 5000 yuan.
Mike calculations, this year earned 10 million, gifts, maintaining relationships take at least 50,000 yuan, which was really difficult to make money tiring!
Fee money bad atmosphere
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Reciprocity should be the "degree"
FU Wen Yao Xueqing newspaper reporter Meng Haiying
"Gifts now change too much, that is, before the holidays, when we say something to each other, there is a sense that on the line, and now even the gifts between relatives and colleagues are increasingly 'stress', completely changed the taste it! "Wuhan City, a retired high school teacher Wang Hongmin said the focus.
Nominal increase in the amount of high, people favor spending "pressure Alexander"
Just in Nanjing, a company's culture Zhang Yang, with the word "pressure Alexander" to describe Seventeen human contact. "Light said some money, grandma house over there more than a dozen children, but to give ah!" Zhang Yang lamented.
Weekdays favors spending is inevitable, even "bankruptcy" of the time. Last August, a cousin of her husband Zhang Yang admitted to the university,http://xinshayang.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=12422, another cousin to go abroad to study, to 2,000 yuan per person, with the ceremony; the same month, also attended the wedding of a colleague, to scrape together $ 600 elements of money; to a friend's birthday, nearly 200 yuan to buy a birthday cake. "My salary 4500 yuan a month to make ends meet ah!" Zhang Yang said.
Reporters found that human contact names now increasing, more and more widely: Remove outside festivals, weddings and funerals as well as celebration, exam science, the army, opened, hospitalization, job transfers and other gifts are also able to work. 29-year-old man Fushun Wang said: "We are there to get married in general, education, children, baby full moon, one year old, move, funeral, should do."
At the same time, increasing the amount, but also makes the situation became unbearable weight. Qiqihar in Heilongjiang rural home, 26-year-old Lu said, the winter off-season, multi-lunar calendar married his mother this month have been given gifts of more than 1000 yuan, "My parents are farmers, a total of only two year's income ten thousand dollars. "
These ordinary people worry that if the leadership cadres, more reminiscent of corruption. Many leading cadres during the holiday season you come to me, "human contact" at being down with.
Comparisons of psychological and social atmosphere, so emotional realization, rituals alienation
Although complain incessantly, in an interview with reporters,http://www.foss.lk/comment/profile.php?uid=89, many of per capita "very helpless, but still need to send." Small Lu said: "We all live in a village, village eight miles down to see the rise,http://ars.userfriendly.org/cartoons/read.cgi, and if we do not go to the future, their own children at home and no one to work more shame ah."
Zhang Yang, said: "This is a basic rule of modern interaction between, not so spending that sooner or later will be despised and neglected."
Experts pointed out that the complexity of the causes of gifts in vogue, there are many factors affecting customs, atmosphere,hogan uomo outlet, and psychology.
Professor, Department of Sociology, Peking University, said China is human society, reciprocity in the past is the traditional social etiquette acquaintances. But the current situation and the social atmosphere of a relationship, everyone wants to show affection to each other,woolrich parka, but are reflected in the money, with the money on behalf of the relationship between how much intimacy. We also like the competition, resulting in human expenditures rise,http://3shop3.com/news/html/?304468.html, while those who work lavish, more emphasis on the psychological.
In addition, many people have in mind: everyone else in the office, they pay a lot of money, so they will have to do some of the money back. Wang said he had a classmate, did not even go to college. But if it does not do at home, before someone else on being paid,peuterey donna, his parents had to concoct a university, said his son was admitted, Liu Shuixi big swing in the village.
Professor of Sociology, Renmin University of China Zhou Xiaozheng believe that gift giving is the product of a liaison and maintain emotional way, but also an environment, we are sent,http://rs-union.rojo.jp/cgi-local/ssbbs/ssbbs.cgi, you can not fail to deliver. But sometimes, gifts and powers inevitably linked with corruption scrape together.
Xia Xueluan noted that now "acquaintance" and "circle" is very important, so a lot of human contact become cadres, leadership, superior gifts, exchanging social status, honor and other things with the substance, courtesy becomes a transaction, can easily cause corruption.
Reciprocity Initiative experts have degrees, with a system to curb corruption in space
Zhou Xiaozheng believe that human contact is the precipitation of traditional culture, folk normal greeting sent understandable. Note, however, a question of degree. And this needs to change the environment, change our habits, governments at all levels, leading cadres should take the lead in the demonstration.
Xia Xueluan suggestions, you can take advantage of local rules or regulations to constrain the upper limit. Many experts also initiative, reciprocity should pay attention to the warmth of love, despite the old saying goes, "to reciprocate", also called "brotherhood ceremony of light weight."
In order to prevent human contact into a festival of money, the growth of corruption, Zhou Xiaozheng pointed out, but the key is to put the power into the cage system, leading cadres accepting gifts with specific provisions limiting behavior.
Zhongnan University Professor Qiao Xinsheng reports, friends and family during the holidays in Hong Kong is also very frequent dealings with each other, but Hong Kong will require officials must publicly declare accepting gifts of others,http://www.dehuaca.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=615726, to avoid the normal reciprocity becomes money, while some officials remind accepting other people's property when the attention of avoiding conflicts of interest.
Qiao Xinsheng suggested that it should improve the system for the national staff in activities outside the official acceptance of others how to deal with a gift to make it clear that the civil servants and the normal reciprocity and illegal bribes to distinguish.
(Original title: human "burn" is so great (austerity against waste))