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(Pumping problems) either after the first mental substance or mental substance after the first marriage had not calm, young people should learn the rain thinking. Ultimately, the value of the generation of young people will decide to select your own destiny and marital happiness.
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- Song of fish and water
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80 Legal Stories (IX)
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Text / Gao Qing
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No house,Louboutin Escarpins, no car, no ring, no wedding, no deposit, no wedding, no honeymoon, Tong Lin as the TV series "Naked Wedding era" in the Tong Jiaqian married as "nothing" of Hao Wei. However, the marriage of fuel vinegar tea to make them "naked marriage" bitterness and become increasingly difficult. Her love shaken -
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For love "naked marriage"
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Tong Lin was born in a small border town in the South, because it is the only child at home, parents will all hopes are pinned on her. Especially after Tong Lin admitted to a prestigious graduate Beijing, Tong mother greatest wish is to have a good future daughter home. She was always good-naturedly warned Tong Lin, must keep their eyes open carefully selected a condition good object.
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Kenji summer vacation,http://jomj.net/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=389401, Tong Lin went to the old revolutionary base during the summer to participate in social practice, to get to know the country's Department of Architecture doctoral fellow Hao Wei-class university. Hao Wei from Guizhou, a remote rural areas, he talkative, sincere, work it, it resolutely. The practical sincerely touched Hao Wei Tong Lin heart, Hao Wei Tong Lin also was attracted by the kindness and intelligence. Back in Beijing, Tong Lin Hao Wei to show the state of mind: "Be my girlfriend, I would have been on Hello, just temporarily can not give you too many things on the matter." No sweet talk, no rhetoric, Tong Lynn nodded yes without hesitation.
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After hearing the news of love Lin Tong, Tong mother both surprise and some apprehension,Louboutin Baskets Femme, can not wait to ask: "? What the boys how to how character education family ......?" Tong Lin, a series of questions for some overwhelmed. Tong Lin is very clear, although Hao Wei has hired the country's best and Design Institute, but Hao Wei's family conditions is difficult to meet the expectations and demands of the mother. Therefore, she did not answer his mother's question, but Tong mother left endless suspense.
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In order to personally investigate her daughter's boyfriend, Tong Lin's parents arrived home specially from Beijing. Despite repeated Tong Lin Hao Wei advantage to parents brag, but when it comes to Hao Wei home in the countryside, Tong mother immediately expressed their opposition. Tong father finally intercede before agreeing to see Hao Wei Tong mother side.
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Met, Tong mother bluntly asked: "Young man, I heard you family is not very good, if my daughter told you, you have no grasp a foothold in Beijing?" Faced with such tough questions, Hao Wei has long been mental preparation : "aunts and uncles, I understand your concerns but please be assured that although the starting point of my low point, as long as we were together, the way ahead will certainly be farther good.." Tong mother intends to continue to ask, is the side of the Tong Lin blocked. Tong has remained silent father also expressed his views:. "As long as you feeling good, you are still young, you can slowly create the material conditions" Tong Hao Wei father's words gave great encouragement.
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Gone on to the graduation season, in August 2009, Hao Wei and Tong Lin also participated in the work. And around "Graduation is breaking up," the students are not the same, they cherish each other. Because all need rental housing, they invariably think of marriage, so they secretly went behind her parents Civil Affairs Bureau for marriage registration.
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No house, no car, no ring, no wedding, no deposit, no wedding, no honeymoon, just two young hearts closely linked together.
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With love
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Tong mother that her daughter licensing, is after more than six months.
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At that time, Lin Tong primary school students Xu Yan married a Beijing the "rich." He held in his hometown extravagant ceremony. See Xu Yan happiness, psychological extremely unbalanced Tong mother, his daughter Xu Yan not only higher than education, and better looks,http://bangcundai.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=906160, so a ratio, the daughter of marriage should be better than Xu Yan worse. She immediately call to Tong Lin, ordered her must immediately break up with Hao Wei. But Tong Lin confessed to her own marriage had deeply hurt fact her heart, hung up the phone, she was heartbroken.
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Mother Tong Tong Lin in any case difficult to accept no marriage room to get married, she often tears to Tong Lin said: "My child, no house no home, our family this is not wealthy, they have to go to the sun, why do you to bring themselves into the darkness? "While my mother, Tong Lin smiled every time, but the experience of the" impoverished life naked marriage "after Tong Lin began some wavering a.
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In fact, since Tong Xu Yan Lin was invited to the wedding fantastic, also visited her luxurious three-bedroom marriage room, the girls out of instinct,http://www.cnmoter.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=285207&fromuid=6188, Tong Lin, envy aside, and my heart began to drop.
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Early July 2011, Tong Lin suffering from a heavy cold as cold, Hao Wei is in Hong Kong on a business trip, the landlord suddenly notice she must Tengfang within five days, she felt an unprecedented sense of weight. Dragged weak body, Tong Lin braved the scorching sun began looking around the room, and ran for two days and go but no fruit. She could not bear to disturb Hao Wei, the parents had to help. Tong mother rushed to Beijing, and took the opportunity to claim a divorce Tong Lin,http://pub.course.ecustmde.com/xiaoyoulu/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=65669, also a lawyer written the complaint. Tong Lin, after some ideological struggle,Louboutin Mariage, finally signed on the complaint.
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Hao Wei completely unaware of all this, threw himself into the project of Hong Kong, led to very appreciated his talent, he put every little bit of progress on his own career and his wife are seen as a result of joint efforts. To give his wife some incentive, he gave Tong Lin bought a diamond ring. On the way back to Beijing, he has been brewing for two years how late the ring to put on Tong Lin, did not expect to just enter the house Tong Lin received a divorce indictment. Hao Wei tears,http://59.175.205.50:8080/BBS/showtopic-7935607.aspx, he tried to save marriage, repeatedly tried to contact Tong Lin, the other phone is always turned off.
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Hearing the same day, Hao Wei rushed to court early. Tong Tong Lin, accompanied by her mother, looked a bit nervous. When Hao Wei familiar figure greeted the moment, her sudden tears, such as Quan Hao Wei ...... habitually close to beloved wife, in a low tone, said:. "I'm sorry I let you wronged," Hao Wei sentence warm Heart words wash away all the blame Tong Lin and pain, just this man, perhaps not give her sheltered, but it can be paid to her real life and warm.
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Tong Lin to a judge for withdrawal. Tong mother paused, it may have been touched by the couple's love.
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Family analysis
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Analyst: Song fish water (Vice-President, Haidian District, Beijing, the national model judge to mediate known)
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Tong Lin Hao Wei finally returned to the side, love finally overcome everything, this outcome seems idealistic with color.
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In fact, Tong Lin and Hao Wei is based on feelings, obstacles between them is no "economic base." In Tong Lin's mother appears, no room no home. So she not only marriage to stop her daughter, married the daughter of a divorce is still required.
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Why are parents so mundane? Almost all of China's marriage, parents more interventionist, do not interfere too much success. Happy marriage road, parents have to intervene for thousands of years, whether it should continue? If this problem is to marry for the cut-off point, the world's parents really want to watch, because there is a very simple truth,http://www.clarityenglish.com/englishonline/index.php?item/create_form/1, when two young people are immersed in hot pure love and happiness, is not secular rub sand of,http://www.zhuzhou.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, but it will be self-defeating, counterproductive. So,Louboutin Homme, young people their own choice is very important to respect the choice of young people is a developmental trend of modern society.
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The problem is that marriage is a lifetime thing, marriage is just two people start coming who can spend a lifetime guarantee? What can ensure a lifetime of marriage?
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Nobody marriage was poor,Louboutin Mary Jane, married rather a poverty-stricken life. Marriage and property of particular inseparable relationship with the property. Wealthy people have the right to pursue a better life, is nothing more than hope that by the next one is the cause of trying to get the other shortcut hope some more.
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Property is a real problem facing the contemporary young people, parents will help a number of good luck, bad luck dilemma more. But I think that this should not be the main criteria for the young mate. The development, improve the contribution of young people in the social system are subject to change the status quo. If a generation vision Historically,http://59.175.205.50:8080/BBS/showtopic-7935592.aspx, every generation has undergone remarkable change history. Country is changing, people's lives are changing, earth-shaking personal family life will change. Therefore, we can not draw a conclusion on a point in time.
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The next generation of children, the property is just a small sign of its most important sign or to identify a person. Today's young people are more due to the contact, knowledge more widely, the mind is the sun, the overall quality of young people are looking for; and increase the overall quality of this flag means that choice should be broad and deep, not too narrow.
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Whether it is after the first mental substance or mental substance after the first marriage had not calm, young people should learn the rain thinking. Ultimately, the value of the generation of young people will decide to select your own destiny and marital happiness. Parents just have experienced a desire to open your book, can not accept, but to read, to enlightenment, to go beyond; can not accept the parents 'marriage, but to accept the parents' wishes. The world does not want children, parents are not happy, especially the one-child parents, they interfere with you or letting you is a kind of care, love and dedication to you - ever.
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(From "Law and Life" fortnightly half of September period)
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