标题: A3YEG248Ju [打印本页] 作者: GH78FG8c883 时间: 2014-9-23 21:12 标题: A3YEG248Ju Henan Chinese Commercial News reporter Xiao Fengwei
Dating more than 500 girls, Xu did not find a satisfactory object, he is convinced that continued to look for it,http://www.longrenwang.cn/BBS/home.php?mod=space&uid=176714, "the right people" will eventually appear. Blind, has been Chengdu white collar "compulsory" one. "2010 National Survey marriage," said China had approximately 180 million school-age youth, with "help" of 80 million parents, which means about 260 million Chinese people for the spouse and busy.
Nicknames: "The most suitable for marriage Civil brother"
Work Location: Henan
Age: 32 years old
Experience: 3 years of dating more than 500 times, participated last year had a stall is the fire television hit shows, still single
These conditions: ability, will take care of people, and looks "pleasing to the eye."
Three years more than 500 blind not find the other half
Demobilized from the army, Xu units to the province of an organ work, about 1.75 meters tall, square face, eyelid - whether professional or external image, are in line with the majority of female mate choice criteria. However, the 32-year-old Xu has yet feeling of belonging.
To the end of the single life, three years more than 500 times Xu blind, spare time "is not blind, on a blind date on the road."
When the blind up to a day at the same cafe, sitting in the same position, Xu met with the four girls.
The shortest time blind date, he has only to say hello and the other left, the cause is that the woman face is the pox.
. "I do not ask for more beautiful, pleasing to the eye at least have to look at it," Xu said, if you want to list spouse, ranked first, should be strong, career-driven woman he admires; came in second bit, is too good for him, it will take care of people; came in third place is the looks, this is a very important indicator.
Xu said, met with more than 500 blind girl he likes only four or five people.
Television blind date failed to attend
Last year, the rise of television dating show, but also aroused the interest of Xu Yang's.
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But since then, Xu online fire, known as "the most suitable for marriage Civil brother."
Xu Yang thinks most proud of is that there be a special experience: the creation of the shooting has been involved in film and television drama; 2008 Beijing Olympic Games opening ceremony of the "big footprints" have his ideas; with a soldier, who had led hundreds of people flood relief; has funded over a Uighur teenager reading. And opened aircraft, tanks, armored vehicles, cars; would laundry, cooking, computer repair; decency, self-motivated, love clean, do not smoke, do not drink, rarely go entertainment ......
Some netizens questioned his day as a civil servant blind date was "worthless," and even leaders also talked with him, so that he would focus on work.
In this regard, Xu explained that his blind date is the use of working hours and on weekends, will not affect the work.
Unwilling to lower their standards firmly believe will encounter "right person"
Women entrepreneurs,chaussures nike homme pas cher requin tn pas cher, local civil servants, is Xu ideal marriage.
"Working to find a girl to do my wife, I could not pass that kind of life." Xu said his family property is not too thick, to his current economic strength,moncler spaccio aziendale moncler 2013 donna, can not let my wife do the full-time wife.
During this time,basket air max femme air max femme solde, Xu did not then blind date activities. Xu said, not like before blind blind date, and to pay attention to efficiency and quality.
"Pay attention to each other's economic strength, while more a spiritual quest." Xu said, there are friends advised him to lower the standard, but he believes that saw 500 people is inappropriate, that "does not meet the person,http://mlmdemy.com/activity/p/249322/, stick to it, Probably the first 501 people will fit. " (Upon the request of Xu is a pseudonym)
Digital
180 million people are in love, too busy 260 million people
Xu for bachelor in distress, when the country's 260 million people may have the same problem as the spouse busy.
ACWF China Marriage and Family Research Council and other units released the "2010 National Survey Report of marriage," said the respondents,outlet moncler treviso giacche moncler uomo,http://youarenot.moe/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=125691, 23.8 percent of single parents everywhere who help them find the object.
Ministry of Civil Affairs statistics, China had approximately 180 million school-age youth, assuming that every single person has two family busy for their spouse, then it means that about 260 million Chinese people for the spouse and busy.
Henan Chinese Commercial News reporter Xiao Fengwei
Mate has become a problem of urban white-collar workers.
The reason, experts in different fields, and scholars from different perspective, the reason for its formation, the impact, there are different views, there are different proposals.
Among them, the medical expert's point of view makes cold sweat - old child is not necessarily a good thing to come, the child may congenital malformations.
Marriage Experts
Mate dislocation
Is the main cause of increased left men left women
There are single men,nuova collezione hogan 2014 hogan outlet donna, single women there, why left men left woman problem still so prominent?
"2010 National Survey of Marriage" principal performer told Henan Business Daily reporter Wang Zhiguo, the existence of single men and women with the status quo mate expectations of "dislocation", making marriage structural imbalance further.
On the one hand, "mate dislocation" performance expectations desired asymmetric male and female mate choice mate.
For example, 62.4 percent of women believe that the best age for marriage at 25 to 27-year-old women, but about 30 percent of men want to look for 20 to 24 year-old female; 20% of women think that their "golden age" in the 28 to 30 years old, and in fact, for more than 27 years old so-called "left women", less than 8 percent of men willing to choose.
On the other hand, "mate dislocation" also showed expectations for the entire singles spouse do not coincide with reality.
Statistics show that 41.7 percent of women believe that the ideal companion for career civil servants - everyone seems civil stable income and leisure. However, this survey found that many women and men in the civil service after a blind date, have chosen not together with the male civil servants, because in actual intercourse, women often find that many civil servants neither house, nor the car, holding better than ordinary white-collar wages, working busy, thinking curing, far from their imagination, "civil servants." This is a typical expectation and reality "misplaced."
"In fact, many women want to choose not civil servants, but a steady income." Wang Zhiguo said that these seemingly strict requirements mate behind,fausse air max courir air max, hiding the real needs is a stable life for himself.
Sociologist
Forcing large gap between white-collar mate "think much"
In an agricultural society, parents enrich people,hogan scarpe online comprare hogan su internet, we can determine a marriage, and now, how have actually become a problem to find the object of it?
"This is the inevitable product of social development." Sociology of CASS researcher, Professor Li Yinhe said that the agricultural society, people learned very little information, with the development of modern transportation and communications networks, more and more people's communication range Canton, just on QQ a search, you can find thousands of objects that meet the requirements, long distance relationship, transnational Love also becoming more common and more people to choose from, denied the opportunity will be more natural.
In addition, the widening gap between rich and poor in modern society, serious polarization. Thirty or forty years ago, is the era of material scarcity, everyone's education, economic conditions are matched, the wealth gap is not obvious, the economy will not be an obstacle, as long as the two feel Haojiu Hang.
Today, different people, education, family background, career, economic conditions huge difference, find a "rich second generation" and find a "poor second generation", there will be a world of difference life, plus life stress and other factors, So when looking for an object, will set out a bunch of standards.
Li Yinhe said that people are hoping to find the best one who is, however, should first determine what they can find the kind of person, what kind of people will be happy to find themselves. "The most outstanding is not necessarily the best for them."
Marriage economics expert
The house has become the road leading to the threshold of marriage
"2010 National Survey of Marriage" shows Qicheng women believe that men must have room to get married.
Liu Shan,http://www.icewen.net/zhidao/question.php?qid=875514, the famous economist, Peking University researcher, Dr. Dongbei University of Finance and Economics,http://www.iff6.com/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=137107, has published "Love and Marriage economics,hollister uk cheap hollister for women,http://www.769car.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=," a book. He believes that the current difficult collared blind date, a major factor accounting for the house.
Liu Shan said, in real life,http://www.makeitnatural.org/wiki/index.php?title=User:Bhg7n0w8d#SJB3X3Y1Nn, people choose to be bound by the conditions, as long as the conditions have political reform, people's choices will change accordingly.
"Before, we blind why not consider the problem of the house? Because then the house is not a problem." Liu Shan said, can not simply blame the female "money worship" profound analysis of social causes them to go worships money.
From an economic point of view, marriage is similar to a contract, the reason why people sign it, because the expected benefit from it. Thus, in real life, people are in accordance with the "optimization" principle to select objects. The choice of the scope or conditions, including internal and external factors.
"Why is such a big factor affecting housing? This is not to say that internal factors unimportant." Liu Shan said, to make an analogy, to eat bread before,piumini moncler uomo moncler ufficiale, then the conditions improved, not only eat the bread, but also meat, rice,giubbotti woolrich donna woolrich prezzi giubbotti, etc. all kinds of things to eat, so the bread on a back seat, but life is difficult to meet the urgent need of the items, it becomes more important.
Housing is increasingly difficult to meet this thing. Therefore, women in the choice of objects to get married, will value the housing factor.
Medical experts
Men childbearing
The probability of large congenital malformations children
Due to economic pressures, urban white-collar workers are now tend to marry "late marriage."
Wang Zhiguo said, according to the survey, urban white-collar workers in the age of marriage basically 32-35 years old.
According to medical experts, delayed marriage and childbearing, but also limited, not the later the better.
Many people are aware of the dangers of older mothers: easy childbirth, premature birth, infant low energy, or congenital malformations of the relatively high proportion of genetic disease risk. There are views that men "came the old child" may not have good results.
Li Yushan Henan sperm bank director said that although male fertility can last up to 70 years old, does not mean that men do not need to "children as early as possible."
Li Yushan said that the golden age of male fertility is between 25 to 30 years old, older, smaller sperm density, the lower the energy, will lead to sperm deformity rate,http://bryllupskanalen.tv/bryllupsforum/ http://bryllupskanalen.tv/bryllupsforum/profile/jhjdfd4j47, the child may appear congenital malformations and other diseases.
Guangzhou Red Cross Hospital, chief physician, said Andy Lee Kam, prenatal diagnosis of Statistics found that more than 40-year-old man after the pregnancy, the chance of neonatal dementia significantly improved, and each increase of 5-year-old, whose chances of neonatal chromosomal abnormalities will be increased by 1%. Another large-scale statistics found that more than 40-year-old male fertility chances of deformed children up to four to six ten thousandths live births, compared with 40 men under the age of up to 20%.