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Support corporal punishment camp
Do not let children develop arrogant personality
Miss Lee to work in the media is "80", she believes that parents can properly spank a child. "I just hit my mom was big, and I have no psychological trauma. Admitted to the university, and now to find a good job, nothing bad." Miss Lee said,giubbotto woolrich, was beaten before their parents more school . "Dad poor control effort, usually the mother hands." Recalled childhood things, she also felt a little funny: "Mom,http://www.52dafang.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=90344, although little effort, but especially hard when you hit, you want to own his hand in there. When she came down the board, you can not hide, waiting for the moment a child is particularly cruel to me. "
Miss Lee said that the main reason for their beaten particularly a "lie." "When I was fun, but is tight at home, I often lie to someone to do their homework, where tuition, in fact, play a." Began to be found Xiejian Tao books, guarantee,air max, the results still can not help offense,woolrich outlet milano, "and later found lying just hit, that excuse does not speak."
YOYO users also said that a few days ago to see themselves in the area of ??a small class of kindergarten children,nike air max one, to her mother yelling and kicking. And in this case, not only does not hit her mother scolded, but also a smile ran away. YOYO said that for his son, she hit preaching invalid. "Playing their baby once, Mom would make him guilty of at least two or three days, but rather their own tormented soul, do not want their children develop arrogant personality, small tubes are bad, think big when the tube is late . "
Faction against corporal punishment
Children become idols do adequate communication
However, there are some parents still adhere to the "preaching" does not support the child hands. "The child is very simple,http://linkedgov.org/forum/profile.php?id=1089, as long as you are able to become his 'idol', the child will naturally imitate your behavior." QQ users, says the children of parents complained frequently of force,woolrich outlet online italia, is not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and even easy for children become "worship of force." "You can not convince him, by force to make him yield,chaussure air jordan, which will give him cause any impression? He is now a small,http://fwsc.wenxiu.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, can not resist, so he has strength, stamina, and certainly in the same way against you."
Ms. Zhang, who lives in Panyu South Olympic Park is a "zero-force" faction, it has been three years old son,http://bbs.2950.com.cn/thread-241350-1-1.html, claiming he never played it. "I think those kids who play no patience for people who are not doing enough to communicate with the kids." Ms. Zhang said his son also has importune time. "Every time this time, I always advised him to calm first, and then ask him why, he did talk to communicate." The very fact that the child is still small, sometimes up trouble simply unreasonable, "I'm cold, He casually trouble, cry,http://www.xmu.sh.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=201320, ignore him trouble so he was tired, talk. "Ms. Zhang said, this recipe has not failed before, he had never played a child, but like everything to communicate better.
■ experts say
Depends on the character of the child have the skills to play
In the end that should not spank their children? For many parents of doubt, Guangzhou New Express reporter interviewed Star Youth Development Center Social Work Education HE Wei, chief psychologist, is also the mother of the child she played himself bluntly,chaussures tn pas cher, "but do not hit children,woolrich outlet, adolescent children do not should resort to, even playing, but also played a skill. "
He Wei said,http://lkmkm5qbhuae.hatenablog.com/entry/2014/09/24/115720, Da Buda children, can not be generalized. . "Depends on family values, it also depends on the child's personality traits," she believes that some children self-esteem, introverted, good face, this is not suitable for children to play the way; Some children especially skin, incorrigible,hogan outlet milano, can properly use the "fight" to strengthen the concept of education. He Wei said: "I played three or four more elementary grade is when." She suggested to the parents, so after the child, there is a very important part: "let the child know that you are angry about his behavior rather than for himself angry. "She said the children were playing, and certainly have negative emotions, needs psychological comfort.