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(Reporter Wang Yue) since the "money immediately," popular network, a "right to have a subject," the comic also continues to heat up,air max pas cher homme, behind the ridicule, many hidden "left male", "left women" anxiety. With the Spring Festival approaching, many single small partner will face troubles forced to go blind.
Recently, a "Chinese people love and marriage Survey Report 2013" shows almost 60% of the respondents have been parents, "forced marriage",http://longbai.info/longbai_info/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=4645041, "80" is the major groups of parents forced marriages encounter. Ultra-four percent of parents choose "monk mode" that constantly urging speech; nearly two parents like "mobilize the masses",requin nike pas cher, with friends and family pressure groups; there are direct parents to catch ducks shelves,air max tn pas cher, forced arranged blind date.
Case one
Girlfriends play "Lovers" relieved Parents
"This is my most difficult year, a total of 11 times blind date, this New Year a home, the more endless ......" mustaches after 80 face smile.
Hu home in Jilin City, after graduating from college to stay in Changchun, has no object, "I worry, but the object is not a commodity, that there have ah, the thought of bombing the New Year relatives,http://xn--6mq179ao2g.net/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=941510, have a big head." Little nonsense He had to deal with the policy this year.
"I have good relations with a female friend took a lot of 'intimate' photos, and put her head to make a cell phone wallpaper, save it on the name of the address book has become a 'dear', but also told her to give me a day make a phone call, just to cope with over-the fifth day on the line ...... "Little Nonsense, he did quite upset,http://hrr.ul.hirosaki-u.ac.jp, otherwise two elderly have had a bad home, in front of his own relatives also suppressed.
"This year, the first to do so,http://www.s130.net/cgi-bin/gsx/bbs.cgi, the next year to fight to find a 'justifiably' of ......" little nonsense.
Case II
Hide "forced" simply do not go home
Xiaoge 29-year-old was a sales manager, hometown of Changchun City, after graduating from college to work in Dalian. "Usually too busy, no time to consider personal problems, became a flash 'left woman'." Xiaoge said, "Every New Year is a catastrophe ah, parents last year to give me a death order, so I will with a boyfriend back home,air max 90 pas cher, I can not be bothered to go back this year. "Xiaoge said she and roommate is preparing to report a tour to Hong Kong, Macao, Taiwan or abroad to travel New Year.
Xiaoge say, in fact,woolrich prezzi, her heart did not want to leave their parents, but such circumstances, a last resort. "Used to love the New Year,http://www.bbstg.com/index.php/read.php?tid-74746-ds-1.html, since the work of the New Year gradually became a burden. One to the New Year, relatives and friends get together,woolrich uomo, I'm most concerned about is the marriage."
"I had finished 30 years, and will be more afraid to face the parents and relatives of the ......" Xiaoge said her New Year's wish is to be able to find a right person in 2014,http://www.tongqiong.com/read.php?tid-470.html,moncler prezzi, soon married.
Psychological experts
Do not ask these questions kids Spring
For parents forced marriage, children fear return of the phenomenon, the executive director of the Association of Jilin psychological education, senior counselor supervisors CHE teacher said, parents and children need positive communication, the less back,air jordan 6 pas cher, the more intensified fear and panic. "Do not be too anxious,http://www.asagao.com/cgi-local/bic/compbbs/compbbs1.cgi,hogan prezzi, fear not to affix labels should be read as it is the parents love my performance."
Meanwhile CHE stressed that it is for relatives, try not to ask some topics, there are some things best not to say.
"'There is not an object?' 'When are married ah?' 'When are to have children ah?' 'Did not buy it? How many square meters ah?' 'One month of salary ah?' Issues like this simply do not say, you asked the child does not want to hear, but also increase the pressure. "CHE said, in addition to these questions, you can chat among relatives talk some hot topic nowadays," do not have to go kids 'doubly'. "
Marriage counseling older youth surge
"The number of marriage problems come to consult significantly more than last year, a lot of older youth will reflect their own friends even as a young man." CHE said that over the past year,nike air max, the issue came to marriage counseling older teens out increased by at least 20%.
"Two days ago there was a female doctor to consult, she told me she was feeling numb, a friend introduced not even look up,http://yellowblog.livedoor.biz, and the family has been urging her,hogan italia, she was particularly painful." CHE, said friends deficit, Looking for love on the case of a lack of passion he received every month.
CHE proposal, older youth in order to solve personal problems as soon as possible, first of all should be healthy and positive mental, not too much emphasis on income, looks, substandard housing condition. Second, we should try to expand their social circle, and finally, do not put your own objects with others objects inappropriate comparisons to avoid delaying the opportunity to mate.
(Original title: "? There is not an object." "When are married ah",moncler pas cher?) |
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