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June 11 afternoon, suffering from severe eye diseases groping Tan will sign the Dongguan City Intermediate People's Court court investigation transcripts, his ex-wife that she keep her husband Weixi Pei continue educating children in court, asking them to stop her husband's "hostage" allow them to meet the couple and living together. Although the first trial had been lost, but in the end she decided to stick.
Tan will be 60 years old this year, her husband Weixi Pei is 84 years old. 10 years ago, because they "Twilight Love" combined. April 2011, Tan will develop breast cancer, went to Chongqing treatment. During Weixi Pei sudden stroke, was home with the children, from two old separation date. "My husband will not let the children we met, I'm out the door trying." Tan would say, her husband left a mild stroke dementia, long-term can not be met, she has been slowly forgotten. But feelings are not willing to make her a decade, adhere to the "born to see people die to see the corpse." In  son seems Tan would be "scam", "When Father stroke alone, where she is? Father also spent a lot of money."
Bitter conflict with the family illness, property disputes, will this "Twilight Love" shattered.
Ten years of marriage
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When children have attended feast
Distance of half a meter, Tan would say that she had been blind to the reporter's appearance. In addition to breast cancer, "grape globule membrane eye" Let her walk, we must Jinjinzuanzhu cousin's arm. About ten years ago with the "Pei t" acquaintance, has warp.
2001, Tan printing plant in Dongguan City Department of Education to work after the divorce was introduced to the  workers. "I did not want to, feel that they do not speak Cantonese, unable to communicate with the locals in Dongguan, though divorced, but the children have grown up, their own money to spend, but also very good. Later, several workers said Jia Buzhu , decided to see the one below, make a new friend Ye. "Tan would say, September 3, 2001, she was told," Pei t "met in the People's Park, then over seven years late  still in good health, that is, His wife had just died, listless. "He will speak Mandarin, a former government cadres,woolrich, very qualities he said his teeth mouth is not good, after his wife died along with his son lived, rice is too hard to bite does not move, often to the streets to porridge, looking for someone to take care of."
After the first meeting, and they often meet the park. "He always said to invite me to dinner, I never agree to it, what relationships are not, what to spend his money?" Tan would say, until May 1, 2002, they determined to get married, only to eat a rice. "He has a son, two daughters, for our marriage, his children did not explicitly say that they support, there is no opposition, we put a table in Hongfu city, his children, his wife, son were all present, but the attitude very cool. "Since then, Weixi Pei sight Niu Dun bought a old house, moved out from the son's home, beginning with Tan will live together. September 27, 2004, they received a marriage certificate.
Tan said it would be, married two feelings well. "Pei t very funny man, always make me laugh, two people have lots to talk about,http://www.0731hn.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=85109, even jolly, all go together hand in hand." Tan would say, as a "halfway husband and wife", she is serious about training tertiary children's views. After marriage, the son of Wei Xiaojiang  rarely Wangniudun, just the festival every year, come and take his father's death his mother went to the grave; Spring and summer, let grandchildren came to visit.
(In an interview with reporters, and now it will take care of Tan's cousin also said that two elderly people feeling good, before she came to visit,  also a good mood to joke with her.)
Disease strikes
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Treatment to spend the escalation of conflict
Quiet life unconsciously gone. Beginning in 2003, Tan will see things start to get fuzzy feeling, the more serious a few years after being diagnosed as "grape globule membrane eye." Initially, she Affiliated Hospital of Zhongshan University in Guangzhou cure, the doctor later switched to her hometown of Chongqing. So, every three months or six months, she will return home referral trip, each about one week.
(Submitted to the Court of First Instance of the pleadings, the children Weixi Pei Wei Xiaojiang, Wei Shuping said: father have deposits several hundred thousand dollars worth 50,000 yuan mother alive also gold and silver jewelry; Tan will Biweixipei small 26-year-old, concealed suffering serious eye diseases, from the outset,woolrich, have purpose; married after 2004, largely separated in two places, the first three years often back to Chongqing, every ten days; later years, each year only half the time lived in sight Niu Dun, each to his father for money, to go to the money back to Chongqing, leaving his father a man in Dongguan. economy was not good tan their own children will be at home and buy a car suddenly.)
April 10, 2011, Tan was diagnosed with breast cancer will be in the examination. Since the treatment, she contradiction with  children grow. "My health insurance in Chongqing, so to go back and do chemotherapy. Before I left, Pei t give me 110,000 yuan, let me heals, he could not say at the time with his son." According to her, her medical treatment at home nearly four months, they make a phone call every day, every training t ask her enough money for medical treatment, but in addition to this 110,000 yuan, she no longer ask Pei t money.
( son and daughter in the first instance the word in reply claimed that after Tan will develop breast cancer, with a nanny back to the biological children around, has spent Weixi Pei over 30 million, making  debt.)
Three parting
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Home to find someone repeatedly refused
During Tan will cure in Chongqing, living alone  sudden stroke.
July 27, 2011, Tan will be coming back to Dongguan. "When the hospital, his children are present." According to her, when she wanted to stay in the hospital care, but training t worry about her body, to her first Wangniudun back home to rest and told her three books and where to put the real estate license, so she went back to take custody. At home, she found three books disappeared, leaving only the real estate license. After she and the escalation of conflict  children, "Father lived more than a month after discharge, every day I would go to the hospital to see him once during later his son would not let me go to my last resort, back to Chongqing to continue chemotherapy .9 on the 14th, Pei t hospitalized again,http://www.2jdzn.org/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=226209, so I come back, his children would not allow me to see tertiary training, and it put us Wangniudun home furnishings,woolrich, appliances are evacuated, before my shoot with tertiary training Photos are taken away, even one meter, half a bucket of oil did not leave. "
(And ,  word in the first instance where the respondent claimed that Tan will be back later in Dongguan, the first thing is not concerned about his father illness, but to books,woolrich, so that elderly people lying on the bed again cerebral hemorrhage.)
Tan will say,http://www.otechaitv.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=1043903&extra=page%3D1&frombbs=1,woolrich, after nearly three years, Weixi Pei was his son, "control," it can not get through the phone, landline heard that she would die. "I have numerous experiences of finding the door to go, they do not let the door, I called Pei t across the iron gate, Pei t want to come out, let's stopping his son in order to let their son come to an impasse, I always went her own way . "Tan would say, a year training t birthday,woolrich,http://tavistockfc.com/forums/profile.php?id=25676, his son was not at home, she went back to the training t lookout cattle pier. "I gave him the eel stew soup, but he does not drink, his son heard about, the training t away. Then grabbed my arm training t want to leave." Tan will their tears said.
Leaving Tan will worry is that after the stroke, leaving Weixi Pei mild Alzheimer's disease sequelae. "In the beginning is still relatively light, but gradually, sicker, he seems more and more do not know me, say for a moment, then met to think of it." Tan would say, do not let his son attempted to meet the long-term, so Pei t completely forget about her. "But we have more than ten years after all the feelings, had said good with dignity, I am not willing, I will live together with him, so he will not forget me!"
Women's mediation
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Meet again briefly separated
To this end, Tan will find lookout Niu Dun Federation, Federation hopes to see his wife. A Wangniudun Federation issued a "Tan will visit experience" shows:
On 23 July 1,2013 Tam visit, after reflecting back from the home treatment, husbands and children do not agree to let her see her husband, the woman's hope: to see the side of her husband, to take care of him, and his life together.
2,7 On 24 May,http://bbs.ntgis.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=49901, the Women's Federation and Wangniudun Wangniudun Justice met with Wei Xiaojiang, Wei Shuping, after which staff communicate the results of the mediation the parties agree as follows: Weixi Pei children recover Tam residence appliances and daily necessities, and temporary living expenses to pay 1000 yuan; agree arrangements for two elderly people to meet.
3,7 On 30 May, it will be accompanied by his family Tan go again Wangniudun Federation, representations Weixi Pei child fails to pay 1000 yuan before the mediation agreement living expenses.
4, the next day, after Wangniudun Women's mediation, Wei Shuping pay 1000 yuan, and agreed to meet on August 1 in the People's Park. The same day, Tan in People's Park to see her husband, but Weixi Pei children asked her divorcing willing to compensate Wangniudun an estate, Tan would disagree. Wangniudun mediation Federation suggested that both sides face to face again, Wei Shuping tactfully refused to inform staff will own it will communicate with Tan.
Tan said it would, when the time to meet,  also know him, but he's always interrupting their children to speak, did not say a few words with Weixi Pei leave. Since then, Tan will also find the Dongguan Municipal Women's Federation. Under the arrangement, Dongguan City Women's Federation, they finally met side.
Losing the first instance
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Trial each argument heated debate
January 2013, Tan will Wei Xiaojiang,  court, demanded an end to violations of their marriage legally entitled to autonomy, to stop forced divorce behavior, stop the third person hostage, let  live with her. And return the balance of Weixi Pei passbooks and bank passbook 11,240 yuan, the return of accommodation and daily necessities. When the first instance court, Tan would not have to do so to see his wife, he did not appear in court.
The court of first instance verdict shows that the two sides are  be restricted freedom, whether Tan will have the ability to take care of other issues hotly debated.
Whether the 84-year-old children  freedom is restricted? I am also willing to work with Tan whether it will live together?
The plaintiffs: Tan would think the Father Guan Wei Xipei children at home, leading to couples unable to meet my request is Weixi Pei Tan will find the government, the court freed him.
Defendant: Before the first instance trial, when the court staff go home visits,  statements are different. He said that he himself would have been for a long time and Tan did not meet and communicate, economy, life has for a long time no contact, he felt no need to talk to Tan will live together; Now his family to live with his son, the living conditions better.
Tan will be the ability to take care of his wife?
The plaintiffs: Tan Pei t be said had talked to discuss, ask her niece as a nanny to take care of two elderly people, to 1200 yuan monthly salary. The money, pensions and rent income can afford tertiary training.
Defendant: Weixi Pei children think Tan would suffer serious eye diseases and breast cancer, can not afford to take care of his father.
How do Tan will insist on living together with her husband's request?
Defendant: Weixi Pei children, said Tan will ask the purpose of living together with his father impure, there are economic considerations. Saying they were married, it will heal in the name of Tan repeatedly return to Chongqing home, to keep the father for money; later had breast cancer, has spent more than 30 million Father; Father stroke after hospitalization, Tan will also worked clamoring to book .
The plaintiffs: Tan said the treatment will be used for money, are Weixi Pei voluntarily given, and the number is only about 11 million. Zhu Manliang attorney also explained that it would be a lawyer when the original Tan, did not mention the economic requirements Weixi Pei just want to live together, in the lawyer's advice after the lawsuit was an increase in economic content. "If only to property, Tan completely divorce can directly hit it from a legal point of view, it would be easier to achieve. Besides she can wait for Father's death, and then initiate a lawsuit property division, holding a marriage certificate, which points to the her property will not be less, but she still wants the subjective desire Father together, also filed a lawsuit hoping to meet with a help of a court. "
December 4, 2013, Dongguan City People's Court sentenced Tan first will lose, she filed an appeal to the Court of First Instance of visits to challenge the application of the civil capacity of conduct forensic situation .
"First instance proceedings,woolrich, the situation had on Tan will be very beneficial, but the court visits,woolrich, the Weixi Pei testimony to reverse the situation, and ultimately lost." Tan will be the attorney Zhu Manliang said Court of First Instance visits content difference too, suspected Weixi Pei by children's stress .
Court investigation
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Judges come forward yet see above
June 11 this year, after Tan would appeal, Dongguan City Intermediate People's Court launched a court investigation into the case, Weixi Pei and their children did not attend, but there are attorneys to come forward. This makes it hopes can make use of the courts see above "Pei t" side Tan will be quite disappointed, once refused to sign the investigation record. "Even if they want a divorce, but also training t-face told me!" She says.
The second trial judge asked the attorney to contact Wei Xiaojiang, asked whether arrangements for two elderly people to meet, not Dongguan Wei Xiaojiang said. The judge asked his attorney to convey Tan would imagine  request, said they would continue to contact Weixi Pei children, strive to create the opportunity to meet two old, Tan will only reluctantly agreed to sign a court investigation record.
After two weeks, according to lawyer Zhu Tan will Manliang said the court had telephoned Wei Xiaojiang party, arrange for the elderly to meet the requirements. But Wei Xiaojiang replied that it would be to contact the Tan. As of press time reporter, two elderly people still did not meet the second instance trial undetermined time.
[Dialogue parties]
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Tan will be: Health wants to see people die to see the corpse
Q: You are now cancer, eye diseases, and sometimes to return home treatment, can take care of a 84-year-old do?
Tan would be: My cancer has brought under control, which is very troublesome eye. Earlier, I talked to Father have discussed, let my niece came nanny to take care of our lives. His son had three children to raise, it is impossible to spare some time to take care of him, I saw him, he said, his son just give anything to eat it.
Q: When the Court of First Instance visits,  say do not want to talk to you, how do you see?
Tan will be: I do not believe that training t-stroke caused by Alzheimer's day, but not to forget, and even lived for decades-old neighbor he did not know, met me awhile to think. This state he is naturally son called him to say anything, he said nothing.
Q: If the second instance and then lost, you will stick to it?
Tan will: We are legally married couples, why not even see the side are so difficult? Had hoped to see her husband in court,http://www.dejiachina.net/service/feedback_look.php?id=81680, but his children did not let him come. I was born to see people die to see the corpse! In fact, a lawsuit is not the purpose, as long as his children, we often agree to meet, nothing else to talk about.
Q: Have you ever thought of divorce, for property?
Tan will be: We've been married for ten years, deep feelings,http://bbs.gaokao.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=34926, I just want to live with my husband, take good care of him, and did not think about others. As Father's property, the future Father to go, we are legally married couples, in accordance with the law, it will naturally get what I deserve.
Wei Xiaojiang: She just wanted to get money to start a
Q: Weixi Pei after stroke, is not slowly it will not recognize Tan, only to meet in order to think of it?
Wei Xiaojiang: yes.
Q: They were married ten years, do you think they have feelings?
Wei Xiaojiang: Tan will start just want to get money. Said to take care of his father, when his father stroke where she went? She also told the father to cure a lot of money.
Q: After preparing how to arrange his father's life?
Wei Xiaojiang: live with me, for me to take care of, from his hospital to now, has been living in my home.
Q: Weixi Pei and Tan will receive a marriage certificate, after all, ready how to deal with?
Wei Xiaojiang: let them divorce,woolrich, property division, if involved, they drew the court.
[Extension]
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"Twilight Love" registration of marriage
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District one year is not more than 10 pairs
According to data provided Dongguan Office on Aging shows that the number of elderly population in Dongguan city of about half of the city's household, amounting to 135,870 people. Currently, Dongguan, yet there are units or individuals on the "Twilight Love" carry out specific statistics. Southern reporter interviewed a number of departments Federation, the office on aging, marriage registration centers, the city's detailed data were not obtained. Dongguan marriage registration staff management center said, in Dongguan City, the elderly population is so huge, "Twilight Love" pitiful.
Local elderly conservative majority
"Our center is responsible Dongguan Guancheng, South, East, Wan Jiang main city of marriage registration. Currently data collection system, and did not set up 60 years old and above this one, now only summarize from memory, the city over 60 years Registration of marriage, no more than 10 pairs per year, "deputy director of the marriage registration center in Dongguan City  said:" Most have to register local household registration and Dongguan,woolrich, Dongguan local elderly are generally conservative, even in Sangyu the knot again very reasonable. less. to register marriage elderly are generally university professors, school teachers and other thinking more open man. estimate the following towns, the number of elderly registration of marriage will be less. "
Reporters asked the city center over the marriage registration and management staff, and only one person had received a recent registration of the elderly. "Dongguan old very conservative household, after the death of my public, I encourage Macabeo find a result, prompting the elderly had gas." One staff member said.
Marriage platform to build the elderly
It is reported that Dongguan marriage registration office on aging management center and is planning to build a platform for the elderly marriage. . "Now we have to focus on the issue of marriage for young people to go, no one noticed the elderly from marriage problems,"  said: "We hope that through this platform, to provide a widowed meet, exchange opportunities."
Zhong Xiaoyan said, "Twilight Love" vulnerable children against resistance is mainly two areas: maintenance issues and property division issues. Old to get married,http://forum.ea3w.com/?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, their children will think: the future is not to support a multi-old man? Old property will not fall into the hands of others for no reason? These two resistance, and maintenance issues have clear legal provisions, but also relatively easy to solve. And property issues if not handled properly, there will be endless trouble. "Proposal elderly out of the 'Twilight Love' this step, when you want to take advantage of their own health, and property division matters well in advance."
City Office on Aging responsible person explained that plans to build the elderly marriage platform, but provide an activity for the elderly, exchange places, as dating, marriage belongs to a private person, by their own treatment. "Older people also eat more salt than we eat dinner, believe they are smart enough to deal with these issues." The name of the responsible person.
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Written: Southern Reporter Dan Changfeng Photography: Southern Reporter Chen Yi Kai Southern cartography: Chen Fang
[Reporter visits]
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No "Pei t"
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His son every door dialogue
At noon on June 10 this year, it will be in accordance with Tan said,woolrich, the reporter found Wei Xiaojiang residence located Guancheng rout, indicating identity, Wei Xiaojiang did not open the door,woolrich, saying  not at home, across the iron gate to the reporter simply explain the situation, insists that Tan would be "cheat Father money", after Father will take care of by him, "Let them divorce, property division, if involved, they drew the court."
Stayed at the door 56 minutes later, Wei Xiaojiang has not opened the gate, do not want to elaborate on, into the house. Tan will shout at the door: "Pei Shu, I see you!" Wei Xiaojiang not been ignored,  did not appear.
According  neighborhood neighbor said that the day had seen Weixi Pei in the home. "At noon also saw him eat lunch in the living room, went upstairs after dinner, probably nap."
(Original title: cancer lawsuit seeking elderly couple accompanied his home)